Got Behavior Problems? Try a Social Story

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My husband and I were first introduced to social stories by our son’s kindergarten special education teacher. We had just gotten our kids bunk beds, which our son was initially super excited about. Then, the first time he tried out the top bunk, he banged his head on the ceiling. Our younger child was not quite ready for the top bunk, so when our son, the big brother, got upset and refused to sleep in the new bed, we thought we were doomed. 

I wrote a note to his teacher explaining what had happened. She told us he had been talking at school about how excited he was for the bunk bed. She offered to make us a social story about the new bed.  

And it worked! We read our son his social story before bed, and he agreed to sleep in the top bunk. We continued to read his story every night for a couple of weeks, and he never had a problem getting in his bed again.

So what is a social story, exactly? Social stories were conceptualized by a pediatric doctor and autism researcher to help enhance the social skills and behaviors of individuals with ASD. Social stories can model appropriate social interactions by showing a basic description of a situation using proper social cues, others’ perspectives, and a recommended response. In our experience, a social story looks like simple sentences and pictures to break down a challenging situation our son is facing.

A couple of months after the bunk bed incident, we asked my son’s teacher to make a social story for him to prepare for the arrival of his new baby brother. He was very anxious about the situation. She put together a story and included pictures of our hospital, of him, and of his little sister when she was a baby. Thanks to a scheduled C-section, every detail about the day of his brother’s birth and the days after could be planned out and included in his social story.

Since then, we have made social stories about many things. A few particularly difficult situations that social stories helped get us through include cutting fingernails, giving up the iPad, buckling a seatbelt, flexible thinking, staying on schedule, bathroom etiquette, hitting (safe body and safe hands), and safety at the bus stop. Here a couple of those stories

My son likes his social stories to be written in the first person and to include lots of pictures. There are apps to help make social stories, like social story creator, where you can add audio and your own photos, or you can use a word document and Google images for pictures.

Whether kids have special needs or not, they occasionally need a clearer picture of what is expected in certain situations. A social story is a visual way to show them just that!

 

Pump It Up :: Tips and Tricks for Exclusively Pumping

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Gear of an exclusive pumper

My name is Kat, and I am an exclusive pumper.

Those words make me think of those old Reebok pump sneakers that were all the rage when I was a kid. In all actuality, it refers to the fact that I breastfeed my kids via pumping and bottle feeding.

There are a number of reasons why a mother would have to exclusively pump — medical issues with the mother, prematurity, tongue or lip tie with the baby, or pure personal preference. Exclusive pumping is growing in popularity, as it gives those of us who are unable to traditionally breastfeed a way to feed their children with breastmilk.

When I made the decision to exclusively pump with my first son, I struggled to find information, tips, and tricks. I did a lot of things wrong. My second time around, I not only had my own struggles to build upon, but a growing number of resources online and more lactation consultants informed about its best practices.

Here’s what I have learned from two exclusive-pumping journeys.

You need buy-in from those around you.

Exclusive pumping takes up a ton of time — more than normal breastfeeding does. If, at any given moment, you aren’t giving your infant a bottle, odds are you’re pumping. Then as soon as you put that pump away, you’re feeding your infant again.

In order to make exclusive pumping work, you cannot skip a chance to pump (something that has derailed me with both children). You will need help, support, and understanding from those around you, such as your husband or partner and any family members who are helping you out. Make it clear what you need from them, be it to watch the baby for 20 minutes or to take over a feeding. Also, stress to them the importance of not missing a pump. And if you think you would respond well to their encouragement, ask them to pump you up when pumping gets hard. There will be times you want to quit. The support of others can make a huge difference.

Have your gear handy at all times.

Because exclusive pumping is so time-consuming, anything that can make the actual act of pumping easier is welcome. Buy a basket and put everything you would need in that basket — the pump and its piping and cords, bottles, pump wipes, hand wipes/sanitizer, and a water bottle for you. It really makes all the difference in the world when everything you possibly could need to pump is in one place, ready to go and easy to tote.

A Glitter Yeti cup
A Glitter Yeti

Find whatever gets you to drink massive amounts of water and do that.

Is it a cup with time notches on it? Is it adding lemon to your water? Is it a glitter Yeti? (A giant stainless steel mug that an Etsy crafter blinged out with glitter. I love mine. It is obnoxiously wonderful in every way.) Not drinking enough water was my total downfall the first time I exclusively pumped. My second time around, I was determined not to let that happen again. 

The internet can be your friend.

Since exclusive pumping isn’t the most popular concept in the world, it can be difficult to find resources to help you. That’s where social media has stepped in. In just the two years between my children, the amount of Instagram accounts, YouTube channels, and email newsletters that discuss exclusive pumping topics has seemingly tripled. Here are my favorites.

The Exclusive Pumping site and newsletter: Amanda Glenn’s Exclusive Pumping newsletter is an offshoot of her website full of knowledge. This site provides basics on the topic in an easy-to-read manner, from pumping for a newborn to her recommendations for gear.

Legendairy Milk’s Instagram account: This a treasure trove of information for everyone who breastfeeds, especially exclusive pumpers. Legendairy Milk is a breastfeeding supplement brand, but their Instagram account strikes a good balance between hawking their products and giving advice. Their breast pump advice and hacks are especially helpful. It’s also one time on the Internet where you can read the comments and get something beneficial from it. The bits of knowledge other moms drop there are just as wonderful as the account itself.

Wonderfully Ale’s exclusively pumping series on YouTube: Let me preface: I have an addiction to flight attendant YouTube channels. It started during my first maternity leave and hasn’t let up since. Wonderfully Ale is a flight attendant and mom of two, and she became an exclusive pumper when her second son was born last year. Her series of videos on gear and schedules were a departure from her usual topics, but they were extremely helpful for me. Advice surrounding breastfeeding is easier to digest when it comes from someone actually in the throes of it at that moment, and Ale provided that for me.

 

Down a Kid and Gaining a Whole Bunch of Time

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“What’s Libby up to this week?”

“Not much — she’s only 16 months. She’s basically just a tyrannical ping pong ball.”

“How about she comes to our house for a few days?”

This was a recent conversation that I had with my mother. Whaaaaaattttt??? You’re actually offering to take the kid who gets into everything, has the attention span of a gnat, and has started throwing royal fits if she doesn’t get her way? Be. My. Guest.

I gave Mimi and Papa plenty of outs to renege on their offer, but they were steeled for the challenge. Our third daughter is very sweet yet very, very sassy and has really started to come into her own. Basically, that’s code for she’s a royal PITA these days. I have a hard time getting anything accomplished because she’s always “helping” or wandering off to get into some kind of trouble. Every task takes 3,000 times as long for a multitude of reasons. And it wears on me. I like to check boxes off my to-do lists, not add four times as many. 

It’s also like she knows she is the third child. We swear she is keeping an internal list of all of our transgressions against her so that when she’s in therapy someday she can unload all her grievances. She takes note of all of the exciting things her old sisters are able to do and does not hold back in her disappointment at her exclusion. I empathize with her, but it does get frustrating for both of us.

And so we had three days without our youngest. I dropped back down to two children (who are older and more self-sufficient than the last time there were only two of them). And the difference in having just two again was startling. 

Our morning felt so much less rushed! We quickly dressed in seasonally appropriate attire and had time for a good tooth scrubbing, unlike our usual cursory mouth swipe. We had time for a full breakfast, not just scooping Cheerios into mouths as quickly as possible while checking the window to see if the bus was going by. We even had time to double check that homework and lunch bags were in backpacks! 

After I got one daughter on the bus and the second daughter to preschool, I had four GLORIOUS hours to myself! I went to Home Depot for a bathroom project and was able to really think about what I needed to purchase and what could wait for another day. I did some early Christmas shopping. And I was able to have an uninterrupted, stress-free lunch with two girlfriends. On my way to pickup from preschool, I did a few more errands just so I could pop in and out of the car unencumbered by car seats. Amazing.

One poignant takeaway from being down a child for a few days was that it was like a glimpse of my life in the future. Not too long from now, I will routinely have this kind of “freedom” while all of my children are in school. It makes me question what I will do with that free time. Will I find a part-time job? Volunteer at their school or at another organization important to me? Or maybe I’ll become a gym rat?

Only time will tell what I will do with my newfound free time when that day arrives. What I do know is that I will continue to try my hardest to enjoy this short period when I have kiddos home with me who want to be around me. Even on our most overwhelming days, they always know how to put a smile on my face and close the day out with love and a snuggle. That is a treasure I wouldn’t give up for all the time in the world.

 

Kindergarten :: Now or Later?

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We were always so sure.

From the time my 4-year-old son was an infant, my ex-husband and I were sure we wanted to wait until our son turned 6 before we’d start him in kindergarten. His birthday is at the end of July, so with an August 31 cutoff, he would be on the end of the spectrum in terms of age compared to other kids in his class. A girl with a September 1 birthday could potentially be leaps and bounds different from our son in emotional and social development.

Yes, I know ALL kids are different. I teach special education… my job is to teach to those differences. But given our son’s personality (both the positive and negative traits), we have always been concerned that he simply wouldn’t be ready at 5. Our son is a tiny tornado of a human being who struggles every single day to control his big thoughts and feelings — in greater ways than the average 4-year-old.

But recently…

Our son was evaluated by our local public school system for special education services. The results of this evaluation were frustrating, at best. In terms of his IQ, my son is incredibly bright. BUT because of his attention, hyperactivity, and anxiety issues, he is melting down quite a few times a day in his preschool setting. Sometimes, seemingly for absolutely no reason. His teachers are AMAZING and are so incredibly patient and wonderful with him, but there are days he just cannot keep himself together. He gets frustrated with his peers over them not going along with his big schemes and grand plans. He cries and cries and cries for 20 minutes and just can’t explain why.

My smart, sweet little boy struggles every day to control himself, and it’s just so hard for him. But because of his IQ scores, the other things weren’t really considered. I fought, my ex-husband fought, his current teachers fought to explain how his minute-to-minute life is impacted by his behavior and emotions.

Now the advice is…

The school psychologist mentioned in the meeting that she truly believed holding off on kindergarten was not in our son’s best interest. She feels he will need the stimulation of kindergarten and will have even more trouble controlling his behaviors and emotions if he stays in preschool another year. The director of his preschool seems to agree. She is concerned that the benefits of a third year of preschool don’t outweigh the concerns of holding off kindergarten until 6.

So now we’re facing a decision we seemed so sure of previously. And while I know this is not the biggest decision we will have to make concerning our son and his education, it is so hard to know if we are making the right call.

Did you send your kindergartener on time or keep him or her home an extra year? How many of you had your child repeat kindergarten? How did you decide?

 

Winter Survival :: Indoor Activities in Boston and Beyond

Life with children gets tricky in the winter. If your kids are anything like mine, they need to get lots of energy out on a daily basis. We don’t do well sitting at home all day. When it’s below freezing, and you can’t send your kids outside to play in the yard all day, how do you survive the long winter months? I have some great indoor activities to share with you!

Indoor Play Spaces

Jump On In (Allston)

This large indoor inflatable and jumping facility hosts birthday parties but also has open gym times. There are plenty of options here to wear your kids out!

VinKari Safari (Woburn)

An indoor playground, this play space is suitable for kids from the littlest crawlers on up to the 6- or 7-year-old set. There are cars, slides, toys, climbing structures, small jumpy houses, and a snack room.

Launch Trampoline Park (Framingham, Methuen, Norwood, Westboro, Woburn)

This spot is just as fun for mom as it is for the kids! Some locations offer “toddler time” in the morning for parents and kids ages 5 and under — two hours of trampoline jumping is a perfect pre-nap activity!

Gymja Warrior (Peabody)

If your kids are as into Junior Ninja Warriors as mine are, this is the place for them. The gym has a wide variety of strength-building obstacle courses. They run classes but also have some open gym times.

Museums

Discovery Museum (Acton)

This museum is such a cool place. It’s a STEM-rich environment full of hands-on, interactive exhibits. They have an indoor area and an outdoor discovery woods (with a treehouse!) that’s open year round.

Peabody Essex Museum (Salem)

This beautiful museum has a variety of art collections that change often. Although it’s not a “children’s” museum, they do have an interactive area for children, and they conduct art workshops. They are under renovation, so make sure to check the website before you go.

Boston Children’s Museum (Boston)

This museum never gets old. My kids loved visiting it when they were babies, and they still love it at 6 and 8 years old. Every exhibit is interactive, and there’s something to please each personality. My son especially enjoys the construction zone, my daughter loves the theater, and they both like the climbing structure that spans the first floor to the third.

Museum of Science (Cambridge)

This museum is our personal favorite. We have a membership, which I highly recommend, because you could visit this museum every month and not get bored. The exhibits change so often, and everything is interactive. There’s also the planetarium, Omni Theater, and food court. You could easily spend all day at this museum.

Art Spaces

Plaster Fun Time (Braintree, Chelmsford, Dedham, Haverhill, Marlborough, Plymouth, Salem, Saugus, Waltham)

At this drop-in art center there is a wide variety of items to paint, and kids can take their creations home that day.

Mucky Kids (Cambridge)

A few days a week Mucky Kids offers drop-in hours, with many stations of really creative and thoughtfully prepared art projects. The variety of art supplies offered here is always so impressive! And what could make mom happier than seeing her kids creating lovely pieces of art — without making a mess of the house in the process?!

Look What I Made (North Reading)

A pottery painting space with many options, this place is not just for kids; they have options for adults as well. You could paint a mug or plate while your children paint their choice. They hold birthday parties, moms nights, and there are many walk-in times as well. They fire the pottery in a kiln, so you need to come back in a week to pick up your item.

Kidcasso (Andover, Newton, Wakefield)

This is an excellent option for your little artist. They have classes for children ages 6 months up to 18 years old, such as painting, drawing, and sculpting. They occasionally have drop-in times, so check their website.

Tin Bucket (Reading)

This adorable store not only sells beautiful, creative goods, but the owner also hosts a variety of art classes for adults and kids. Classes include sewing, painting, and crafting. The classes change often, so check out the calendar on the website.

Other Options

Butterfly Place (Westford)

Jordan’s (Reading)

Local libraries

Bowling

Indoor ice rinks (or outdoor!)

Open swim at your local YMCA or Boys & Girls Club

Do Something Epic With Your Kids (Or What I Learned by Reading Harry Potter to My Daughter)

Recently, a few days before my daughter’s ninth birthday, we finished reading the final book in the “Harry Potter” series.

We had started when she was 6.

For three years, I read aloud, and she listened. All 4,100 pages. All 1,084,170 words. I did the voices (my Snape is stronger than my McGonagall), and she asked the questions. “What does ‘remorse’ mean, Mama?” “Why doesn’t he just jinx him now?!” “Which Bertie Bott jelly bean do you think is the grossest?”

It was slow going at times — my daughter kindly pointed out that she had friends who read the entire series on their own in a summer — but I believe the long road made reaching the destination even sweeter. Because we kept at it. We cried together, laughed together, gasped fearfully together, and even squealed together at a certain kiss in book 5. And we pushed through some awfully boring stretches in book 7. (I’m sorry, J.K., but you know it’s true.)

And in the process, we learned a lot. More than just about thestrals and hippogriffs. I’m talking about the kind of stuff one learns when they embark upon an epic project over days, months, or even years. Think a large-scale LEGO creation, a 2,000 piece puzzle, or a fitness chart tracking one-mile runs with an end goal of 100.

Here’s what my daughter and I learned by taking on an epic project together:

1. Be open to a new experience.

When we started reading the “Harry Potter” series, the longest book my daughter had listened to was “Charlotte’s Web.” (Some of those bulky “Harry Potter” books could eat “Charlotte’s Web” for breakfast.) But she was up for the challenge. And I, never one for fantasy books, was up for taking the adventure with her. Hippogriffs and all.

2. Slow down.

In this age of fast-paced stimuli and immediate results, taking on an epic project can feel unnatural, maybe even uncomfortable. Maybe some days you’ll only read three pages before your eyelids are too heavy. Maybe your half-finished game of chess will sit untouched for a week while you contemplate your next move. That’s OK. It’s the journey that matters here.

3. Be patient.

Similar to above, but while you’re learning to slow down, you’re also learning to be patient with your partner on this project. My daughter was patient with me when, on many nights, I was solo parenting three children and had to nix our reading session. I was patient with her when I read a particularly exciting passage and looked over to find her sleeping. And we both exercised patience when my husband, not wanting to miss out on all the fun, would butt in at bedtime to read her some “Narnia” here and there.

4. Stick with it.

The important thing is that even if you’ve abandoned the LEGO castle because you realize you misplaced a brick on the third page of the instructions, you go back to it. You find a workaround; you’re as flexible as you are determined. Together, you’ll build it. Read it. Run it. Finish it.

In the years that I’ve been reading “Harry Potter” to my daughter, she has learned to swim and ride a bike. She has lost eight baby teeth. Her bedtime has been pushed later. Her sense of humor has matured (so she gets all the Weasley twins’ jokes.) She has started to care about the romance between Harry and Ginny, as well as the cultural hierarchy of wizards, humans, and goblins. (And let’s not forget those house elves.)

And she has transformed from an early reader to a highly capable one. And yet, still, she let me go on, enduring my deep-ish brogue of Hagrid’s, my not-quite-British-but-trying falsetto of Hermione’s, my whiny snivel of Draco Malloy. She never once read ahead or asked to take over. Maybe she, too, knew this was a once-in-a-lifetime experience for us. That series. Those years of her life, and of ours.

All those nights sharing her bed, heads close together on the pillows.

Epic.

The Last Day I Will Ever Cry in a Parking Lot

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Me in the Target parking lot.

I am sitting on my playroom floor with my 16-month-old son when my 4-year-old daughter walks in with an iPad and asks me to download a new app. My response is, “No, sweetie, that’s not a good app for you.” The tears and drama begin, and my heart starts racing. Am I going to stick to my guns? I am exhausted, in every way — emotionally, physically, spiritually.

Then the baby cracks me in the face with a toy stethoscope. He did not hit me on purpose, but I respond as if he did. I grab him and roughly (probably too roughly) sit him on the floor three feet from me to give myself a moment to take a deep breath.

My daughter is hysterical because the baby is crying and she did not get her way with the iPad. Trying to keep my composure, and knowing I cannot deal with a meltdown from her, I start to download the app. She yells, “Give me iPad, NOW!” I firmly tell her I am trying to help her and she cannot talk to mommy like that. The baby is still crying and throws himself into my lap, trying to get my attention and upsetting my daughter even more.

Then my husband walks in. Hearing the commotion, he tells me to do my Target run now so I can get out of the house. I burst into tears and snap back.

“I want to walk out of this house and never come back.”

I did not mean it. Obviously, I would never leave my family. I love my kids and I am crazy in love with my husband. But I am burned out. I am totally overwhelmed. I am sick of parenting every moment of the day. It was not just this situation, this time. It was similar situations, a hundred times a week, that had put me over the top.

And then there’s the “mom guilt” I am so tired of. I feel guilty I don’t play with my kids enough, guilty they have too much screen time, guilty I made them chicken fingers twice in the last week for dinner and a frozen pizza once. I just want five minutes of not being needed. I want to go to the bathroom without an audience. And then I feel awful that I have mom guilt. It’s so confusing and raw, and overwhelming.

So I did go on my Target run, and I cried the whole 10-minute drive. I felt terrible about what I’d said and about my parenting. Then I looked in the rearview mirror and saw the pain in my face.

And I decided: NO MORE.

I snapped a selfie to remind myself that this was the last time. The last time I would cry over my “mom guilt.” The last time I would ever cry because I felt like a bad mom. The last time I would let a single bad parenting choice crush my spirit. The mom guilt is always going to be there — and the tough days, too. I am accepting my imperfect self and giving myself more grace. I came home from Target and felt like I was able to truly let it go, and I had a great afternoon playing with my kids.

Parenting is HARD. Like, really hard. I am not a perfect mom, but I truly believe I am a great mom. It is time to reinstate the positive self talk. Say it with me, mamas!

“I am an incredible mom. I am compassionate, patient, and loving. I am dedicated, determined, and decisive. I am strong and steadfast. I am the foundation of my family, and I love myself.”

Dearest fellow moms, you are not alone.

 

9 Things I’ve Learned From Going Back to Work After a Baby

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Recently, I was asked to speak on a panel about going back to work after having a baby. Having done this twice, I am definitely no expert, but I can speak about what worked for me. Here are nine things I’ve learned (or wish I’d known) based on a predictable weekday schedule.

1. Let yourself feel all the feels.

Everyone has different feelings about going back to work. After my first baby, I was nervous about going back but also so excited to have a hot cup of coffee and use two hands to eat a meal. With my second, I was much sadder about going back and had a harder time being away from her. It is OK to feel happy, excited, worried, scared, and/or anxious. You may also have ALL the feelings. Own them. You are not better or worse for feeling them. But you do owe it to yourself and your family to acknowledge those feelings.

2. Communicate with your boss and coworkers.

Before you go back, talk to your boss about what you need. If you plan to pump, is there a space for that? Does your company want to invest in a hospital-grade pump? Does your current schedule work for you or do changes need to be made to accommodate childcare? Also, talk to other moms at your workplace. What was helpful for them? Whose shoulder can you cry on on your first day back?

3. Choose a childcare arrangement that feels good for you.

Try to arrange at least one full day at your chosen childcare center or with your new nanny before you go back to work. This day will mostly be for you to get used to letting go. If you can, do something good for yourself. Massage? Lunch with friends? Go for a run? Nap? Use this day to bring in all the supplies you’ll need at work to avoid that morning rush on your first day back. Also, figure out the best way to communicate during the day with your childcare provider and what to expect in terms of communication from them. 

4. Schedule and prioritize your pumping sessions.

If you plan to pump, treat your pumping sessions like you would any other meeting. Schedule them and prioritize them. The first time you pump at the office will feel weird, even if you’ve been pumping through your maternity leave. You will likely also have a new appreciation for dairy cows. Eventually, you will get into a groove and figure out a system for cleaning and storing pump parts, and ways to pass the time during pump sessions. Talk to your healthcare provider about shortcuts you feel comfortable with. The second time around, I cut down my pumping and bottle cleaning time so much just by talking to other moms and checking in with my midwife for tips! Also, keep some spare parts and wipes at the office just in case.

5. Never underestimate the power of planning.

Weekdays will feel like a mad rush — getting out the door, rushing for daycare pick up, prepping dinner, getting baby to bed before a meltdown, and maybe even watching Netflix before passing out yourself. Taking time to plan will help make things feel a little more predictable. Having a menu plan for the week helps avoid the stress of figuring out dinner in the moment and also lets you be your own sous chef the night before. Sometimes, I can even get away with meal prep the Sunday before the weeks starts! Planning also helps make sure you and your partner, if applicable, get to do the things you want — hello, book club!

6. The weekends will go by very quickly.

Sometimes, in the moment, the weekends will feel like forever. Figure out what works best for your family. Some people like scheduled activities on the weekends, while others like to keep it chill and informal. You are developing a family culture. And the weekends are when it manifests the most. What are your family values? What traditions are you creating? What is important to your family? My family observes Shabbat, so we have a built-in marker separating the weekdays from the weekend. It is a natural way to switch from the weekday rush to the calm(er) weekend.

7. Don’t forget yourself.

In between work and momming, it is so easy to lose yourself. Find at least one thing that is separate from your work self and your mom self, and make sure you give it the time and space it deserves. Give yourself time for you and what you love. And don’t feel guilty about it. For me, the gym and yoga are critical “me” time. My best friend and I also have standing phone dates.

8. Time is limited. Prioritize what matters.

This can be in terms of figuring out which people in your life deserve your attention, which fights are worth having, or which chores are worth doing. A cleaning lady, DoorDash, or PeaPod can be lifesavers. Figure out what’s crucial to you. A periodic cleaning lady is my splurge, and it has truly been a game changer.

9. Crowdsource for advice and support.

The transition back to work is so hard, especially on top of the first year of parenting, which is already so difficult. Find your people. Talk to other moms who have been there. Talk to other moms who are real about the whole parenting thing. Find your favorite blogs. It will get better. It may get worse. But then it will get better again.

 

Easy Medicine Dosing :: OnCure App

Thank you, OnCure, for sponsoring this post.

OnCure app — Boston Moms BlogWe are in the heart of cold and flu season. With three active kids (two of whom are in school), a lot of germs go through our house. With those germs come many fevers. Many, many fevers. I was recently introduced to a really nifty app, OnCure, that makes tracking medicine dosages much easier (and safer!).

According to poison center reports, parents make medicine dosage mistakes every eight minutes. This is scary, but as a parent, I can relate. How many times have I groggily measured out a fever-reducing medicine while half asleep in the middle of the night? One unnerving instance was when I gave my daughter fever-reducing medicine and, unbeknownst to me, my husband had already given her medicine only an hour before. She was fine, but it was a definite mom fail. 

OnCure app — Boston Moms BlogEnter OnCure. This handy iOS app was created by a mother who was frustrated by trying to properly keep track of her daughter’s medication when she was running a really high fever. She searched for an app to help her manage and could not find one. In true #momboss fashion, she decided to create one herself!

It works like this: OnCure combines three key components to ensure parents administer medicine accurately and help them minimize mistakes. The first component is that all information about over-the-counter fever reducers is shown in a clear, simple way to the user every time he or she gives a dose. The second helpful piece of OnCure is a flexible and dynamic schedule that eliminates the need to preset reminders! The app’s unique schedule allows for spacing reminders all within the app. Additionally, if the child needs more than one medication (or is alternating between two fever reducers), it is easy to keep dosages straight. Finally, the third component of OnCure is to have all caregivers synced simultaneously through the app, without having to call, text, or leave notes. The user can invite caregivers to the app’s platform, thus keeping everyone seamlessly (and literally) on the same page.

OnCure app — Boston Moms BlogThe complimentary initial download of OnCure allows users to experience the app during the course of the first episode of their child’s sickness. I think this is a great feature to let parents determine how useful the app is as well as its potential to make their lives easier during a stressful time. To manage unlimited episodes, as well as to track multiple kids at the same time, there is a one-time small payment of $1.99. To allow caregivers’ synching, there is an additional one-time payment of $0.99.

The vision behind OnCure is to provide parents with a simple, easy-to-use, reliable application to help manage and track over-the-counter fever reducers, minimize medication mistakes, and provide parents with peace of mind during a stressful time. While I don’t wish for my daughters to get ill, at least now I know I will have a solid tool to help us all get through it. If you are interested in checking out OnCure for yourself, you can download it here!

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Where to Find a Cozy Cup of Hot Cocoa in Boston

The first soft, fluffy flakes of winter have fallen on our city, much to the delight of my 2.5-year-old. I think he remembers last year’s crazy winter with a sense of wonder — and he’s ready for a second round! Me, not so much. However, knowing that this season is here to stay for the next few months, my family is excited for some fun activities this season — sledding, making snowmen (like Olaf of course), making snow forts, and laying down in the snow and creating snow angels. And having hot cocoa at a cozy cafe in Boston or while snuggled up inside our house tops our list. There’s nothing like a creamy chocolate concoction topped with mini marshmallows to complement the winter wonderland outside the window!

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Here are a few delicious ideas of where to get a tasty cup of hot chocolate in and around Boston outside the door of your own cozy home:

L.A. Burdick Chocolate Shop & Tea Room
220 Clarendon Street, Boston
55 Brattle Street, Cambridge

An icon in Harvard Square for many years, Burdick’s now also hosts a location in Back Bay, offering a warm welcome to passersby. The Tea Room, part of the chocolate shop, has a variety of “drinking chocolates” on the menu that include an assortment of hot chocolates each more delicious sounding than the next. And this cozy establishment’s description speaks for itself: “Under a distinctive tiled roof and striped awning, the intimate setting offers a welcome respite from a day of intense shopping, perusing the stacks at the Boston Public Library or rambling along pathways in the Boston Public Garden.”

Max Brenner Chocolate Bar & Restaurant
745 Boylston Street, Boston

With chocolate seemingly everywhere but in the paint on the walls — or maybe it’s there, too? — Max Brenner does not mess around when it comes to chocolate. The restaurant states on its website, “Chocolate associations are expressed everywhere: in music, design and on the menu. It surrounds you and carries you away.” I’ve been here a few times (once while pregnant with my first son), and I can say without any hesitation that everything chocolate on this menu (and I’ve tried a good portion of it), especially the hot chocolate in their signature “hug mugs,” really will carry you away.

Taza Chocolate Bar, Boston Public Market
100 Hanover Street, Boston

Located in the new Boston Public Market by Haymarket and North Station, Taza Chocolate Bar brings a medley of local, yummy, fresh stone-ground hot chocolate drinks to this cool new market space. With its roots in Somerville, Taza knows just what Bostonians and tourists alike are seeking while out and about in the frigid New England temps — a cup of hot chocolate goodness to warm them up.

Café Madeleine
517 Columbus Avenue, Boston

Walking through the doors of this cozy French café may just be reminiscent of a scene from the delectable 2000 movie “Chocolat.” This cafe offers a traditional French patisserie experience, complete with pastries and beverages made from scratch by classically trained chefs. Try the “house hot chocolate” accompanied by a freshly baked dessert, and you’re in for a real winter treat!

Where are some of your favorite places in Boston to enjoy a cup of hot cocoa?

Recipes on Rotation in My House This Winter

Two of my goals for the New Year are to get more creative with my meal planning and to cook as low-carb as possible in a Whole30-ish way. I’ve done Whole30s in years past, and one of the biggest benefits I’ve felt was a clearer mind and calmer sense — huge perks in my chaotic world! Here are a few family-favorite recipes we’ll rotate throughout this winter and beyond!

Sausage egg roll in a bowl from Buns in My Oven

This recipe, which I’ve modified a bit, comes together so quickly and easily, and the flavors are beyond delicious! This definitely makes up for any Chinese or Thai food I’m taking a break from at the moment. I’ve made this with both pork sausage and chicken sausage and like it both ways. Also, I’ve found broccoli slaw works great for the coleslaw mix, and coconut aminos is a perfect sub for the soy sauce. This dish is also yummy served over cauliflower rice.

Easy creamy crock-pot chicken tikka aasala from The Iron You 

I wrote about how much we love this recipe two years ago, and this is a winter staple in my house because it’s easy, healthy, and packed with flavor. I like to double this recipe so we can eat it for several days!

Cilantro lime chicken bowl from Real Simple Good

I know cilantro is a love/hate food; I happen to love it, so I was excited when I came across this recipe! I marinated the chicken overnight so the flavors would seep in a bit longer.

No-bake keto chocolate peanut butter balls from The Big Man’s World

For something sweet that is lower in sugar, I made a batch of these four-ingredient bites and kept them in the freezer for a week so we could grab a sweet treat on the go. I chose crunchy peanut butter, because that’s my fave, but whatever is your personal preference will work! We used a bar of 100% cacao chocolate, but other varieties of chocolate will work as well.

2019 Guide to Boston-Area Camps

As busy moms ourselves, we know that finding summer camps in and around Boston is on the top of many moms’ lists of things to figure out. While we long for the lazy days of summer, we also know there are childcare and entertainment needs week after week. We hope this guide to summer camps in and around the Boston area, brought to you by Dedham Country Day Camp and Mass Audubon’s Wild at Art Camp, provides the insight you need to plan a fun and stress-free summer.

A special thanks goes out to all the sponsors that helped us make this guide possible. If you would like your camp included in this guide please email meghan{@}bostonmomsblog{dot}org. 

Dedham Country Day Camp

Camp begins June 24 and ends August 16.  
Open houses February 10 and April 7 from 1–3 p.m.

If you have a child between nursery school (3 years old) and entering 7th grade and you believe summer is a time to explore, play, laugh, and meet new friends, then Dedham Country Day Camp is the place for you! Dedham Country Day Camp’s small size allows each camper to get the individual attention we all want for our children. Options include traditional camp (all ages, runs all eight weeks of camp) and sports camp (entering 2nd grade–7th grade, runs all eight weeks of camp). All traditional and sports campers get daily Red Cross-certified swim lessons and enjoy a variety of activities, including arts and crafts, archery, yoga, sports and games, woodworking, free swim, cooking, drama, and more. Dedham Country Day Camp also has a CIT program for high school students entering grades 9 or 10. Email questions to Lisa Kaplan, camp director, at [email protected]. Visit the Dedham Country Day Camp website for more information about their programs. Register on a week-by-week basis for as many weeks as you wish. Register online.

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Wild at Art Camp

Give your child the chance to experience the transformative power of art and nature! The Wild at Art Camp unique camp setting — part wildlife sanctuary, part art museum and studio — inspires creativity, promotes well-being, and enhances connections to nature. Wild at Art provides a safe, fun-filled camp experience specially designed to foster a child’s creativity, sense of wonder, and bond with nature. Campers have fun and build lasting friendships as naturalists, teaching artists, and trained counselors lead them in outdoor explorations and creative art projects, including pottery, painting, mixed media, printmaking, and much more. One- and two-week sessions blend art, nature, science, and engineering for a stimulating experience. Camp staff are selected for their compassion, enthusiasm, creativity, and ability to work with children in an outdoor setting. Most counselors are college students or graduates pursuing careers in art or environmental sciences, while professional art educators plan and direct camp art activities.

iD Tech Camps for Kids and Teens

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June–August

At iD Tech, students ages 7–19 learn to code, design video games, produce videos, design Fortnite-inspired levels, mod Minecraft, create with Roblox, engineer robots, model and print 3D characters, work with AI and machine learning, build laptops, learn about cybersecurity, and more! These weeklong, day, and overnight summer programs instill in-demand skills and embolden students to shape the future. Options include iD Tech Camps (weeklong, co-ed, 7–17), Alexa Café (weeklong, all-girls, 10–15), iD Tech Academies (two-week, teen-only, 13–18).

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French Cultural Center

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Program begins June 17, 2019.
Register before March 30 to receive 10% off with the early bird discount. 
Families registering two or more children for a minimum of two weeks will get an additional 5% off before March 30.

Summer of fun in French! Give your child or teen a full immersion experience of summer fun and learning. Summer in French at the French Cultural Center offers native French-speaking teachers, a varied and engaging curriculum, and a convenient location in the heart of Boston. Summer in French is the perfect way to improve your child’s or teen’s skills and confidence in French, no matter their age or level. Introduce them to the second-most-learned language in the world, and prepare them for a successful academic year. This program has sold out in previous years, so register early! 

LINX

Sessions: June 17 through August 30, 2019

LINX Camps proudly serve Metrowest Massachusetts with over 40 premier camps, including junior, general, adventure, performing arts, sports, leadership, and STEAM. LINX Camps are committed to a one-to-five counselor-to-camper ratio for children ages 3–15. The traditional day camp experience uniquely builds community and character while allowing kids to explore their interests. Theme Fridays, opening and closing ceremonies, and camp-wide spirit cheers are just a few of the community-building aspects of LINX Camps that all camp families have the chance to enjoy and share with each other for a lifetime. Come see why LINX is an award-winning camp six years in a row! LINX bus transportation is available from 17 towns.

SummerTech

SummerTech, since 2002, has been a game-changer in summer technology programs. With an unmatched three-to-one student-to-teacher ratio, SummerTech offers the most comprehensive coding, animation, and 3D modeling courses anywhere in the country. SummerTech’s robust leadership program trains former campers to become the next generation of instructors through internships, mentoring, and leadership training. SummerTech is where you find your people and grow with the top academic and social activities in the pre-college technology world. Have fun, and learn something!

Torit Montessori Summer STEAM

Torit Montessori’s elementary summer STEAM program on Beacon Hill is a fun and educational mix of science, creativity, and sports for children ages 7–12. Each three-week session offers robotics, coding, and game design with EMPOW studios, and art, drama, swimming, tennis, and soccer. BONUS: Weekly field trips to some of Boston’s favorite destinations! Come see the Torit difference at the elementary campus. Lunch and snack are included in tuition.

Camp Invention

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Unmask your child’s creativity this summer in the all-new Camp Invention® program, Supercharged™, where children build confidence, learn to collaborate, and transform their wild imaginations into epic creations. Campers in grades K–6 will learn creative problem-solving skills while coding and programming futuristic robots, uncovering ancient fossils, designing high-tech superhero gadgets, and exploring radio frequencies. Local educators will lead this action-packed program featuring exhilarating, hands-on STEM activities teaching children to question, explore, break through obstacles, and embrace failure! Visit www.invent.org/camp or call 800-968-4332 to register. Use promo code INNOVATE25L to save $25 (expires 3/22) or PLAY15LISTING to save $15 (expires 5/10).

Summer at BC High

Summer at BC High offers an all-gender program for campers entering 5th–11th grade. The campus is conveniently located on Morrisey Blvd. in Boston and only a five-minute walk from the Red Line and Commuter Rail train stops at JFK/UMass. Campers will experience a wide variety of sports camps coached by BC High state champion coaches. Academic, enrichment, and academic credit recovery courses are instructed by highly educated teachers and professors. Specialty programs are run by experienced educators and counselors with a wealth of knowledge in their field and in working with children. Join for an enriching summer June 24–August 16, 2019.

Dexter Southfield Summer Camps

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With twelve camps on Dexter Southfield’s Brookline campus to choose between, your camper is sure to have one great summer! Camps at Dexter Southfield are available for 3.5- to 14-year-olds. Starting at the junior camp for 3.5-year-olds (who must be potty trained) and mixing in camps as they grow, like hockey camp for 6- to 13-year-olds, day camp for 6- to 11-year-olds, sci-tech camp for 8- to 14-year-olds, and so many more, Dexter Southfield has plenty of camp options available to keep your child busy throughout the summer. Stop by Dexter Southfield’s website to view all the camps and see how they might use the campus pool, woodshop, art center, athletic fields, and other spaces over the summer.

Urbanity Dance Summer Camp

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Registration is taken on a rolling basis! Enrollment is available up to the last week of camp.
Register with code BOSMOMSBLOG19 for a 5% discount!”

Urbanity Dance is now accepting registrations for summer youth programs at their South End studios! With programs for ages 2–18 ranging in styles from contemporary and ballet to hip hop and improvisation, Urbanity Dance has a program for everyone throughout the eight weeks of programming.

Have lots of summer plans and can only register for Week 2 and Week 6? No problem. Urbanity Dance allows you to customize your student’s summer camp programming to the weeks that fit into your schedule.

Nike Tennis Camp

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Come join the fun and get better this summer at a Nike Tennis Camp where young players have the opportunity to improve their tennis skills, work hard, make new friends and have a lot of fun. Dedicated camp directors have a passion for teaching and a gift for helping you take your game to the next level.

Locations include: Amherst College (Amherst, MA); Curry College (Milton, MA); Colby College (Waterville, ME); Stony Brook University (Stony Brook, NY); Randy Mani Tennis Academy at Hardscrabble Club (Brewster, N.Y.); and Colgate University (Hamilton, N.Y.); and Agawam Hunt (Rumford, RI).

Who says that only kids can go to camp? The Nike Adult Tennis Camp at Agawam Hunt offers adult tennis players with a special tennis vacation to play at a beautiful racquet club in Rumford, RI. The Nike Adult Tennis Camp at Amherst College has hosted more than 30,000 adult tennis players since 1972. Camp Director Reiny Maier is an outstanding teacher who inspires all players to get better and love the game.

Nobles Day Camp

Nobles Day Camp’s popular Owl’s Nest program for ages 3 to entering kindergarten offers a wide range of preschool-age-appropriate activities, including daily instructional swim. The varied activities are designed to encourage a camper’s social, artistic, and physical development.

Campers entering 1st–9th grade learn to enjoy recreation and experiential learning in a non-competitive atmosphere and make choices in a fun and caring environment. With over 30 different activity areas to choose from, Nobles Day Camp believes the choice of activities is a part of a child’s growth and development and encourages independence and decision-making skills. At Nobles Day Camp, the focus is on fun, friendship, and social growth.

Registration opened Nov. 10 and is open on a first-come, first-served basis. Several weeks and age groups are filling quickly! Register now!
March 1: Last day to drop weeks without losing the deposit
May 1: Full camp tuition due
Camp dates: June 24–Aug. 16, weekly sessions (must attend a minimum of two consecutive weeks)

BCC Summer

BCC SUMMER is back! Join for four weeks of singing, friendship, and world-expanding fun! Dive into songs that celebrate diversity, connect us to a global community, and inquire about social and environmental justice. Activities include singing, dancing, drumming, art-making, storytelling, weekly excursions, and much more! Each week culminates in a Friday evening concert, which is open to the public. No audition required. *Ages: 7–11. Available dates: July 29–August 23. Hours: 9 a.m.–4 p.m. (extended hours: 7:30 a.m.–6 p.m.). Rate: $550 (basic hours).

Community Boating Junior Program

Enjoy a summer on the water while making new friends and learning to sail. Community Boating offers sailing, paddling, and windsurf lessons, STEM programs, games, and other activities to Greater Boston’s youth. In just two weeks beginners become capable, confident sailors. They learn to sail small boats safely and independently through fun lessons and games designed to challenge and encourage. Kayaking is included in the class! Sailors will be on the water every day — active, in the sun, and having fun.

Registration and classes are open!

Hale Day Camp

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A leader in outdoor education since 1918, Hale has stood the test of time. Its 1,137 acres of adventure in nearby Westwood and Dover feature 20+ miles of trails, two ropes courses, four ponds, and multiple beaches. Hale’s classic summer programs are routinely named Boston Parents Paper Family Favorites.

Hale Day Camp is accredited by the American Camp Association and includes bus transportation for its traditional two-week camps, four- and eight-week leadership camps for teens, and specialty camps in outdoor adventure and mountain biking. Campers enjoy swimming and boating lessons with American Red Cross-certified lifeguards and water safety instructors, as well as archery, arts and crafts, field games, hiking, mountain biking, and outdoor skills workshops. HDC’s signature hobby time encourages kids to explore new interests, and its new STEAM activities ensure campers continue to learn as they have fun. Select sessions already have waitlists for 2019, so don’t delay if you plan to register. All payments and forms are due by May 1.

Hale also offers a family program you may have recently seen on WCVB’s Chronicle: Hale Summer Club. In addition to swimming and boating lessons, it includes childcare, adult classes in yoga and aqua aerobics, and access to special events throughout the season.

Kids 4 Coding

At Kids 4 Coding, students ages 6–16 can learn to design and code video games, build robots, program drones, experience AI, mod in Minecraft, create with Roblox, design and code websites and mobile apps using popular programming languages like Python or JavaScript, create music through coding, build a laptop, and more in this fun, engaging, hands-on program.

Kids 4 Coding was selected as one of Microsoft’s TOP 10 Most Innovative Young Tech Startups in Atlanta and one of TECH Republic’s TOP 10 Inspiring “Tech Doing Good” stories.

Join over 8,000 K4C alumni since 2014!

Instructors are computer science and engineering majors, recruited from top colleges and universities like Boston, MIT, Harvard, and Northeastern. Program managers are MA state-certified teachers with CPR/First Aid certification.

Held weekly July 8–August 16, 2019
Full-day programs start at $629  | Half-day programs start at $359
Early drop-off and extended day options available

Hill House Kiddie Kamp

Join Hill House for its 20th anniversary of summer fun, beginning June 17! Kiddie Kamp at Hill House is the perfect combination of new and exciting experiences and a safe, familiar environment. Join Hill House’s counselors for a summer full of games, crafts, stories, songs, age-appropriate athletics, and outdoor fun. Your child will build confidence, independence, and friendships. Each week, campers explore playful themes through crafts and songs that allow their imaginations and creativity to flourish.

Registration is now open! Paperwork deadline is June 1.

Camp Baker

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Experience the joy of summer! Camp Baker, an Official Partner Camp of Hale, is designed to bring the fun, camaraderie, and life-building experiences of a day camp to children with ADHD. The six-week program takes children (ages 6–12) who otherwise may be challenged in traditional camp programs and works with them as individuals to develop skills and confidence that translate into success at home and in school. Camp Baker is overseen by a licensed clinical psychologist and fosters friendship building, combats the “summer slide,” and allows kids to experience the simple joys of summer camp, including art, sports, group activities, and weekly fun Friday activities. With a two-to-one ratio of campers to specially trained staff, individualized programs for campers, and regular skills training for caregivers, Camp Baker is the perfect summer option for families of children with ADHD.

Edge on Science

Calling all budding scientists and engineers, ages 8 to 14! Choose from 10 different week-long, summer STEM day camps, from drones and computer coding to marine science! At Regis College, Weston, and the Plymouth Public Library, Plymouth. Featured on Public Radio!

These are project-based introductions to applied science, where campers use drawings, tools, hardware, measuring instruments, computer applications, and modeling. Whatever skills and abilities your child brings, Edge on Science will meet them where they are and take them to the next level. Led by engineers, scientists, and/or scholars, enrollment is limited to 14 children per session, and the child to instructor/assistant ratio is seven to one or less. Games, challenges, and teamwork add to the fun!

● Week-long, Monday–Friday, day STEM camps run from June 24 through Aug. 2
● 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. each day with optional extended hours
● Early bird savings until February 28

Pine Village Preschool

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Pine Village is a highly respected Spanish Immersion School for Toddlers and Preschoolers. Founded in 2001, Pine Village Preschool offers parents of toddlers and preschoolers a modern approach to child development. It is the program where the seeds of creativity, acceptance and inclusion are planted and encouraged to grow. We have 10 schools throughout the Greater Boston area including our two newest schools in Brookline and Newton Highlands, as well as Brighton, Newton, South End, Porter Square, Kendall Square, Needham, and 2 in Jamaica Plain.

Norton, MA Summer Baseball Camp July 22nd – 25th

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Youth Baseball Camp for ages 6-12 on July 22nd-25th between 8:30-3:00 (Early & Late Drop Off Available) at Wheaton College in Norton Mass.The emphasis of this camp: Developing character traits in young Boston/Norton area ballplayers with a confidence-building, teammate oriented, self-esteem building baseball program over 4 days. We want to challenge ballplayers in all facets of being a baseball player including being coachable, being a good teammate, talking to coaches and umpires correctly, appreciating the sacrifice of parents and understanding the benefits of working hard.

Wheaton College Baseball Field
26 E Main St, Norton, MA 02766

Beacon Hill Nursery School

Beacon Hill Nursery School announces its annual summer programming for 2019, packed with creative learning adventures for children ages 2 to 6. This unique summer program is staffed largely with the school’s own EEC qualified teachers and offers a stimulating and nurturing environment. Children enjoy spending their days exploring our two natural playscapes, discovering science and nature, participating in music, art, and yoga, and engaging in water play and outdoor activities. In addition, a wide variety of in-house field trips are part of the summer program experience, including visits from places such as The Museum of Science, Barn Babies, and the New England Aquarium. Utilizing the school’s outdoor natural playscapes, the program integrates exciting opportunities for young children in the city to engage with nature-based activities. Beacon Hill Nursery School Summer Program offers 8 1-week sessions from June 17-August 16 (closed the week of July 4th) for Toddlers (for children ages 2-2.8) and Mixed Age (for children ages 2.9-6). The summer program hours are 8:30-1pm, with extended day available from 1-3:30pm for children in the Mixed Age group. Please visit our website to register or learn more (www.bhns.net/summer-program).

Plugged In Music Camp

Open to musicians aged 11 to 18, Music That Matters Camp meets in Needham and all skill levels are welcomed. Bands are composed of drums, guitar, bass and vocals and can also include keyboards and horns. Each camp includes band class for 90 minutes a day with 4 to 6 students and a teacher.  Students in the class work on developing a set of songs to perform at the concert, developing original songs or cover works of their own choice. Plugged In summer camp also includes 90 minutes of daily workshops, including Music Theory, Lyric Writing, Songwriting, Music for Social Change and more. Campers perform twice weekly at a benefit concert, or busking in Harvard Square, and watch movies about music and social justice before creating their own music video. 

Hours:  9 am – 3 pm
$1,400:  2–Week Session
Session 1:  July 8, 2019 to July 19, 2019
Session 2:  July 22, 2019 to August 2, 2019
Late Pickup Available (until 5 pm):  $30/Hour
Register Here

JCC Greater Boston Camps

Registration is open.

Kidstock! Summer Theater Programs for Ages 4–15

  • Weekly programs run June 17 through August 30
  • Registration open houses Feb. 2, March 2, and April 6 from 1–3 p.m.
  • Refund deadline June 1
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