The Getting-Out Guide :: Boston’s Best Events for Kids This May

If you are looking for Boston events to keep your family entertained this May, we’ve got you covered! Our monthly events guides are on hand to be sure you don’t miss a thing happening around the Boston area. We know you are looking for ideas for family fun all the time. We have been through the April showers, so it’s time to enjoy May’s flowers! Check out some great outdoor events, ideas to celebrate Mother’s Day, and more!

We’ve also included links to area libraries and recurring events. This is, by no means, a comprehensive list. If you know of any fun family activities we missed, please let us know in the comments.

Oh, and be sure to join our Community & Conversation Group to meet other moms near you!

May 1 :: Preschool Impressionism Workshop :: Franklin :: Calling all parents and children (ages 3-5) with a knack for art history! This workshop will focus on the Impressionist style of Monet. Children and families will explore the general style, discuss, then begin working on two pieces (one 2D and one 3D) in the Impressionist style. Working together with cardboard, foil, tape, and plaster wrap, children can construct a 3D water lily sculpture followed by a 2D watercolor piece complete with a collage.  

May 1 :: Get Outside! :: Weymouth :: Hosted by Boston Moms Blog, this is an informal meetup for local moms and kiddos. Join in for a walk at Webb Memorial State Park, a hidden treasure of the South shore. Located just off Rt. 3 and 3A, this park has full harbor and skyline views, a small, flat beach area where kids can explore, and an easy loop that is good for sure footed children, children in carriers, or all-terrain strollers. Meet at the trailhead toward the end of the parking lot, where you can find the trail map and a water fountain. Hope you can join in!

May 1 :: Art of Meteorology :: Needham Heights :: Some weather watchers like to rely on the prognostications of the Farmer’s Almanac to predict short and long range weather patterns! WCVB’s Storm Team 5 Meteorologists combine experience, education, and science to perfect the “art” of meteorology! Go behind the scenes and watch a newscast from inside WCVB Studios in Needham, hear how Storm Team 5 uses computer models to track major storms, and observe the process of creating computer graphics for the weather forecast. Visit with meteorologist Cindy Fitzgibbon and watch her create computer weather graphics for the midday weather forecast and as part of the news. Event is limited to 15 people, so register early!

May 2 :: Kaleidoscopes: See the World Differently :: Boston :: Spectators of all ages will enjoy a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to construct their own kaleidoscopes, featuring a variety of colorful mirror systems, creating fascinating and intriguing visual moments! Peek inside the specially featured “teleidoscope” — tel means far — that turns Boston cityscapes into kaleidoscopic images. Educational posters will pave the way as you go, providing background and history. Explore the link between the Boston Lighthouse and the invention of the kaleidoscope! This STEAM-friendly, educational, individualized opportunity was especially created for ArtWeek.

May 5 :: Greenway Food Truck Festival :: Boston :: Come celebrate your favorite Greenway Food Trucks and Carts as you kick off spring on The Greenway! Meet on Rowes Wharf Plaza at Atlantic Avenue and High Street for this spring food truck festival! While getting a taste of Greenway cuisine, stroll through the opening day of the Greenway Open Market, a vibrant open-air artisan market featuring talented area artists, crafters, and independent designers.

May 5 :: Spring Celebration & Goat Gala :: Belmont:: Come get your season’s worth of Massachusetts-grown annual and perennial herbs and vegetables. Come early to get the best selection! Proceeds from this sale are used to fund Habitat Intergenerational Program projects. Directly following the herb sale is the Goat Gala! Get your goat on by interacting with and learning about a friendly herd of Nigerian dwarf goats. Bring your kids to meet our kids, does, and wethers; join in games, entertainment, and raffles; and sample goat-related products.

May 5 :: Fairy Festival at Farrington Nature Linc :: Lincoln :: Calling all fairies, elves, gnomes, and other magical creatures! The Farrington Nature Linc will feature a fairy post office, where you can write to the fairies and they will write back! Join a guided hike through the enchanted woods to meet the fairy queen, and make a fairy house in the pine forest! And, of course, you can create and take home three small fairy crafts.

May 5 :: Drumming It Up! :: Lexington ::  A fun and engaging family percussion workshop for all ages and experience levels is being offered just for ArtWeek. Learn about rhythm and teamwork through games and exercises, call-and-response activities, and playing rhythm patterns from different countries. Participants can bring in an instrument if desired but there will be plenty available for all.

May 6 :: STEMsational :: Norwell :: Join for an exciting day of science explorations while meeting with local women scientists and engineers. Through hands-on activities, learn about the cool things they do at work! This is a drop-in program for ages 3 and up.

May 6 :: Harpoon Sunday :: Boston :: This is an informal meet-up event hosted by the Boston Moms Blog Community Group. Grab a beer, a cider, or pretzel (or one of each!) and enjoy the company of other moms as we take over a table at Harpoon Brewery in Boston’s Seaport. Harpoon is kid friendly on Sundays, so if you wish to bring your child you may. If you want to fly solo for a couple hours you may do so as well!

May 6 :: Greenway Open Market Season Opener :: Boston :: Head to the Rose Kennedy Greenway for the Open Market Season Opener! Open from 11 a.m. until 5 p.m., the Greenway Open Market brings an eclectic mix of hand-made art, music, and locally produced products to Boston. Look for the sea of white vendor tents and get ready for some fun shopping, plus good eating at the gourmet food trucks. With a different mix of vendors present each week, you never know what treasures you’ll find! 

May 8 :: The Puppet Free Library :: Boston :: The Puppet Free Library is a library of giant parade puppets. It is open on Tuesdays from 2–7 p.m. for the public to see, play with, and borrow giant puppets for any purpose. 

May 11 :: Floral Head Piece Making :: Easton :: Looking for a unique way to celebrate Mother’s Day? Look no further! We’ve got a fun and creative way to spend quality time with the special ladies of the season. Create gorgeous floral headpieces with fresh flowers! Under the expert direction of Momma Marisol from Alice’s Table, mommies, nanas, grammies and more can work side-by-side with your child to make special memories and this beautiful keepsake.

May 11 :: National Public Gardens Day :: Sandwich :: Get outside and get to know the plants that make Heritage one of New England’s top public gardens during this annual celebration organized by the American Public Gardens Association.

May 12 :: Unbirthday Party :: Burlington :: Just to celebrate all the days of the year that aren’t your birthday, the zany unbirthday party is a fun-filled morning with activities, dancing, crafts, games, giveaways, ShotCakes cupcake, little bites, and more for the whole family. With each donation, one child will get entry into the party and receive a party favor bag (while supplies last) filled with neat stuff. All proceeds will be split evenly to benefit Susan G Komen and Simon Youth Foundation.

May 12 :: #Realmediagirl Workshop :: Wellesley :: This is a half-day workshop teaching middle-school girls how to use social media to feel strong and positive! See the website for full schedule of events.  

May 12 :: Cherry Blossom Festival :: Brookline :: The Genki Spark and the Brookline High School Japanese Program have worked together on this dynamic Japanese festival which draws audiences from as far away as Canada to Western Mass., from Rhode Island to Newburyport. Loud and thunderous, in addition to featuring food, games, and music, the festival’s artistic draw is the region’s only public taiko drumming showcase featuring taiko groups throughout New England. 

May 12 :: Wake Up the Farm! :: Norwell :: The annual “Wake Up the Farm” spring festival is a fun, family-friendly, free event! Farmers will be selling organically grown seedlings, and the educational staff will be on hand to offer free advice and demonstrations to help you get your home garden up and running for the season.

May 12 :: Native and Wildflower Plant Sale :: Norwell :: Just in time for Mother’s Day! Choose from native species, wildflowers, plants that attract butterflies and hummingbirds, drought tolerant species, and more. Don’t miss the beautiful spring ephemerals in the Wildlings Garden, kids activities in the children’s garden, and opportunities to learn from the Massachusetts Master Gardener Association.

May 13 :: Duckling Day Parade :: Boston :: A beloved tradition for more than 30 years, Duckling Day celebrates the children’s classic book, “Make Way for Ducklings” by Robert McCloskey. Every year, over 1,000 people meet up and parade through Boston’s most picturesque parks, dressed like characters from the story. Led by the Harvard Marching Band, the parade will begin on the Boston Common at the Parkman Bandstand and end in the Public Garden near the famous Make Way for Ducklings sculpture. Bring your camera – the parade is possibly the most adorable thing you’ll ever see!

May 13 :: Mother’s Day Picnic at Weir River Farm :: Hingham :: Enjoy live music, yard games, and beaucolic view with your family. Stroll down the hill to explore the farm and visit the barnyard with your family. Sign up for a photo session with a professional portrait photographer at our outdoor photo station. Tea, coffee, and pastries will be provided and you are welcome to BYOP (bring your own picnic).

May 17 :: Doggy Days: Work Like a Dog :: Acton :: As a Therapy Dog, it’s Abby’s job to make people feel good. We’ll visit with Abby, and read stories about other jobs that dogs can have. Abby is a certified Therapy Dog from the Pets & People Foundation, which means she’s happy to meet both enthusiastic dog-lovers and anyone who’s curious but might be shy.  Enjoy this program and more at the all-NEW Discovery Museum! In our new, 16,000sf building we’ve re-created the best hands-on STEAM exhibits from our original two museums—for little kids, big kids, and their grownups—and added many exciting new ones, including water, air, making/tinkering, and more! Come play!

May 19 :: South Shore International Festival :: Hingham :: Join us for our premier community event! Celebrate with dance, food, music, arts from cultures around the world. The festival is free, open to the public. Attendees of the festival will be entertained all day with live music, entertainment, food vendors, raffles and free children’s activities! Stay tuned to this event for more details about performers and food vendors!

May 19 :: Kids Obstacle Challenge :: Lancaster :: Kids Obstacle Challenge is an adventure and obstacle course race series for kids ages 5-16, with 12-15 fun and challenging obstacles and mud. Register your adventurers for a 1.5-2 mile course where they can rope swing into a mud pit, army crawl through tough terrain, scale up rugged cargo nets, and slide into a muddy paradise. Give your kids the chance to release their inner beast and push themselves, all while getting covered in mud! Prepare to Brave Your Adventure and have some family fun! 

May 19 :: Marshfield Safety Day :: Marshfield :: Safety plays a role in our everyday lives whether on land, in the air, or at sea. This event will showcase some of the equipment, agencies and personnel that work 24/7 to keep us safe and assist us when needed. Safety Day will include: K-9 demonstrations, child finger-printing, interactive safety training, 

May 19 :: Teddy Bear Tea :: Manchester-by-the-Sea :: Join Manchester Historical Museum, Manchester Library, and Early Childhood Partners for Teddy Bear Tea. The museum is taking out the good blue and white china for this event.  This event is free but pre-registration is required.

May 19 :: Kite & Bike Festival :: Boston :: The Annual FPC Kite & Bike Festival is held on the Franklin Park Golf Course.  From 11am until 4pm, come fly kites, “rent” children’s bikes (they’re free for the day) or bring your own (we have mechanics on site!), and enjoy food from one of Boston’s food trucks!

May 19 :: Touch a Truck Day :: Weymouth :: It’s another fun year with trucks at the fourth annual touch-a-truck event! Enjoy magnificent trucks while supporting the SSCM. Your child can climb on and explore each vehicle in a safe, controlled setting with knowledgeable volunteers on hand. Plus, enjoy many more activities, such as a DJ, a child’s concert, an animal touch center, face painting, and balloon hats.

May 19 :: Opening Day for Boston Harbor Island Service :: Boston :: Hop on a ferry at Boston’s Long Wharf (near the Boston Marriott Long Wharf) for a 15-minute cruise to Georges or Spectacle Island. Join a free tour led by the park rangers, or enjoy a day of exploring historic sites, photographing birds, enjoying a picnic, hiking, swimming, wading in tidal pools, or simply enjoying the scenery. Check Boston Harbor Islands for current ticket costs. You can buy your tickets at Long Wharf ticket booth.

May 20 :: Memorial Day Parade :: Somerville:: The Somerville Veterans’ Memorial Parade parade honors veterans, active duty military, guard, and reserves, and police, firefighters, and first responders. The parade kicks off from City Hall at 3 p.m., marches along Highland Ave. to Davis Square, continues along Holland Street, and ends at the corner of Holland and Broadway.

May 20 :: Revere Beach Kite Festival :: Revere :: Celebrate spring by heading to Revere Beach, America’s oldest public beach for the annual kite festival. The first 300 kids under the age of 12 to arrive can build their own kite, or feel free to bring your own kite. You’ll see plenty of people of all ages flying kites, having a great time, and enjoying this lovely two-mile long expanse of sun and water.

May 20 :: Young Childrens’ Concert Series :: Newton :: Josh & the Jamtones are an interactive, ultra-powered dance party. We make music for kids and their grownups. This music’s got swagger — infectious, ska-centric jams run into stadium-sized monster rock choruses, which blend into a cappella sing-a-longs fueled by slick beat boxing and massive four-part vocal harmonies, all packed into a ball of frenetic dance party craziness! 

May 26 :: Rhododendron Festival :: Sandwich:: Thousands of world-famous rhododendrons in over 100 varieties offer an explosion of spectacular blooms throughout Heritage. Enjoy a peaceful walk surrounded by walls of flowers, learn more about Heritage’s storied rhododendron legacy, participate in activities with horticulture experts, and take home one of these signature plants from the special plant sale. All programs included with museum admission.

May 27 :: Neighborhood Tidepools :: Dorchester :: Children of all ages and their families are invited to join us to meet live tidepool animals and learn about the ocean with Aquarium educators. Touch a snail or a hermit crab, make an ocean-themed craft and practice your science skills in this drop-in program. These activities are completely free and non-members are invited to join by checking in at the membership desk.

May 28 :: Free Admission at Museum of Fine Arts :: Boston :: Boston’s Museum of Fine Arts offers free admission on Memorial Day (Monday) from 10 a.m.–4:45 p.m. Lots of special family activities will be on display, as well as plenty of special exhibits, including a quilt display, the last few days of a popular Impressionism exhibition, and an exciting display of 60 contemporary Latin American works.

May 31 :: Annual Greek Festival :: Arlington :: Enjoy Greek food, beer, wine, music, dancing, and kids’ activities at St. Athanasius the Great Greek Orthodox Church in Arlington. This is a free event.

Baby-Friendly Monday Matinees at the Capitol Theatre :: Arlington :: Mondays, 12–2 p.m. :: The Capitol Theatre features a baby-friendly movie every Monday afternoon. Please check the theater’s Monday schedule to see what feature has been selected for parents and their infants. 

Kids’ Art Club :: Dorchester :: Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 p.m. :: This club has a new art project at the library every Tuesday. Projects include collage self-portraits and artist’s books. Art Club projects are showcased in rotating displays in the library children’s room.

Nature Time at Blue Hills Trailside Museum :: Milton :: Thursdays, 10:30 – 11:30am :: Introduce your pre-school aged child to nature with this fun program. Programs may feature a story, nature games, crafts, short walks outside, or meeting one of the museum’s animal residents. Meet, play, and learn with other area families. Each program runs for 45 minutes and meets most Thursdays. Museum admission is included with this program. Children must be accompanied by an adult.

JFN Free Friday Playgroup :: Natick :: Fridays, 9:30–11:30 a.m. :: Bring the little ones and come join other parents and caregivers in the Metrowest area for a fun-filled morning of play and socializing. There are plenty of songs, activities, toys, snacks, and laughter, as both the children and their grown-ups build connections and lasting friendships. 

Backyard and Beyond: Forest Fridays :: Acton :: Fridays, 10–11 a.m. :: A great way for the whole family to enjoy time outdoors, the Forest Friday program is held outside, no matter the weather. Every Friday morning there is a nature-based activity based on the weather and season, either in Discovery Woods or out on the adjacent conservation land. All ages are welcome but activities are designed for 2- to 6-year-olds. Please note that the conservation land trails are not ADA or stroller accessible; please wear appropriate footwear and clothing.

StoryTime at the Curious George Store :: Cambridge :: Fridays, 10:30–11 a.m. :: Small children and their caregivers are welcome at these weekly storytimes, running throughout the year. 

SaturPLAY :: Rose Kennedy Greenway – Chinatown :: Boston :: Saturdays, 1 – 3p.m. :: The Asian Community Development Corporation’s youth program, A-VOYCE, hosts a placemaking event monthly to activate and bring children to The Greenway’s Mary Soo Hoo Park. Each month features a different theme with games, activities, crafts, and more. Youth volunteers are on hand to engage children.  SaturPlay is subject to weather conditions.

Family Show :: Cambridge :: Saturdays, 4–5 p.m. :: Improv Boston’s improv and music extravaganza is completely made up on the spot every week based on your suggestion. No two shows are alike! Best of all, children who want to participate have opportunities to be on stage and take part in the fun! Our show is ideal for family outings, birthday parties, and school field trips. The Family Show is fun for the whole family and best for children ages 4-12.

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My Love/Hate Relationship with Facebook Mom Groups

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After a VERY long week in the hospital following a failed induction and urgent C-section, I brought my son home from the hospital at four days old. I hadn’t been home for two hours before I received a notification on my phone that an acquaintance from high school had added me to a mom support group on Facebook. At first, I was confused — I hadn’t even thought about these kinds of things existing! Then, I was ecstatic. I know, I know — who gets excited over that? Well, me, I guess. 

Being added to that group felt like my first step into social mommyhood. Yes, obviously, having the baby is what made me a mother, but this concept was different. I have a nagging and sometimes pathological need to belong, and this was a sign that I belonged. Sure, it was with some women I didn’t even know, but I reasoned there must be some women in the group who lived close enough that we could meet up for playdates and coffee. I was going to have mom friends!

It didn’t take me long to realize these groups are all over the place. A few new posts appeared every day, and the responses were always a mixed bag. Some women seemed like they were truly trying to be helpful, providing encouraging words or helpful suggestions to the scared/worried/frustrated mom who posted. Other moms seemed to always take the chance to be the contrarian. No matter what the original mom posted, these moms just wouldn’t or couldn’t say anything positive or helpful.

A mom who was struggling to breastfeed and feeling sad and scared and tired could turn to the group asking what formula other moms used to supplement, and there would be that one mom. She seemed to be just lurking in the depths, waiting. This mom would announce she NEVER had to supplement and she simply couldn’t fathom giving her precious love any of that evil chemical-laden formula. Gosh, thanks, Helpful Henrietta. This conversation really needed your amazingly insightful comment. We were all just waiting for you to glorify yourself with tales of your breastfeeding prowess that contained no actual advice or support.

Now, I have absolutely nothing against breastfeeding. I have nothing against formula feeding. What made me so sad was how some moms seemed to pounce on others in those threads. Don’t get me wrong. There were times when a mom would post something and I felt it was a silly, unnecessary question. Or there were posts that might as well have had a billboard next to them saying, “Attention! I need attention!” and I would roll my eyes. HARD. But here’s what I would do when they appeared in my timeline — it worked every time and continues to work to this very day. I would simply scroll past these posts and not respond to them. It’s so simple, yet so effective. 

I will admit that as a first-time mom (and one with diagnosed anxiety), I posted a few questions here and there. And I’m sure one or several moms out there thought those questions were silly and unnecessary. Fortunately, they also employed my patented scroll-past method of reply avoidance and didn’t feel the need to tell me so. Did I always get answers I loved? No, of course not. But generally, most things were at least attempts at helpful replies. And I appreciated that.  

There were times in my son’s first year (and honestly sometimes now into his fourth) that I felt very lonely and scared. Motherhood doesn’t come with a roadmap, and we are all learning to navigate this as we go. Moms who have more than one kid can be baffled by something their second offspring does, and she is left feeling like she knows nothing. I love that there are these groups to help, but I hate how some people just use them to make themselves feel like a better mom. At some point, all of us will feel like we are failing. We need to try to make our groups places where moms can be reminded that they’re doing the best they can.

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Let’s Play! Introducing Greater Boston’s Best Playground Discovery Directory

It’s finally happened! Spring is really here! We have our fingers tightly crossed that the sun stays out and the temperature rises, so we put together this Playground Discovery Directory, featuring dozens of Greater Boston’s phenomenal playgrounds and parks!

We have divided Greater Boston into six geographic areas and described and linked some really terrific playgrounds. So if your plans take you to an unfamiliar part of Greater Boston, or if you are in the mood to check out a new playground, this is your go-to resource!

Our Greater Boston Playground Discovery Directory is a work in progress. Let us know if you have a great playground to share or, if you hit one of the Boston playgrounds featured, snap a photo so we can share with other moms!

Having Baby Number 2 :: What I Wish I Knew

Last year, I was scared out of my mind.

I was pregnant with baby number two, and, while we were so excited to have a second child, we also had absolutely no idea what we were getting ourselves into. We worried about how our older daughter would adjust to not being the center of our lives. Yes, we had many “big sister books,” she kissed my belly all the time, and we spoke about all the ways in which she would help.

But when push came to shove, how would she really feel about having this other creature in her life? How would she feel about having to share Mommy, Daddy, and pretty much everything else around her?

We worried about ourselves, too. How would we care for two when we’d be completely sleep deprived? Where would we find time to cook, clean, and do laundry? How would we find time to be with each child AND have time with each other AND have time by ourselves? 

We were essentially taking what had become a fairly manageable existence after three-and-a-half years and completely destroying it. I was terrified about the transition and remember crying to my husband at 36 weeks pregnant, asking him if we were doing the right thing.

Recently, on a Facebook group for local moms, someone asked for advice about this very same thing — tips for transitioning from one to two. The advice came pouring in from moms who had been there. It made me reflect on what we did that worked well — and on things I wish others had told me.

1. Get the older sibling involved the day he or she meets the baby.

We explained to our daughter that the day her sister would be born would be her birthday — and she decided we needed to buy birthday cupcakes. So, when my husband told her it was time to go to the hospital, she told him they had to go to Stop & Shop first. We still tear up watching the video of the three of us singing “Happy Birthday” to the baby. Already, big sister got an ego boost and a sense of pride through duty (and she got cupcakes). 

2. Help big sister or brother feel special and important

We had gifts “from the baby” ready for her. When people came by and doted on the baby, we made sure to talk about how amazing and grown up big sister was. We were also lucky that our friends and family not only brought gifts for the baby but for our older daughter, too. We also made sure big sister got time separate from the baby, where she got full attention either from a grandparent or parent. We gave her special jobs to do for her sister — this was as simple as counting out diapers or choosing between two onesies for her to wear.

3. Accept help!

Especially at the beginning. If someone offers to cook you a meal, let them. If someone will fold your clothes, let them! We were lucky that we had family help in the beginning. Against my nature, I let them help. Please, accept help AND don’t feel guilty about it. You’re suddenly raising not just one human, but two. If you get to have an extra hour of sleep or a half-hour walk, take it. If people are offering to help, they really do want to! And you’re still an awesome mom if you let them. In fact, you’ll probably be more awesome for it.

4. Lower your standards, and give yourself a break.

Right now, you’re focused on survival. If everyone is fed and clean-ish, you’ve done a good job. No one cares what the house looks like. No one cares that you are wearing the shirt with the three-day-old milk stain. No one cares that you have cried five times today — ’cause hormones.

Spend time with your kids and don’t worry about how chaotic everything seems right now. Enjoy them together. Enjoy them separately. Be OK with not feeling like you’re enjoying them. Enjoy your time with no kids.

This is hard. This is work. But, remember, you can do this. And remember the beauty of the newborn period — it ends! It will get better. You and your family will find your new normal. You will develop new rituals and new routines. Your heart will melt as your two little ones start developing their own special smiles and laughter just for each other. And you will think back and wish you had told your 36-week-pregnant self that it will all be worth it.

Open for the Season :: Boston’s Best Springtime Spots

I think it’s safe to say that spring has sprung here in New England; colorful flowers are popping up, the birds are singing every morning, and there have been a few days when jackets haven’t been required. (I have even pulled my flip flops out of hibernation!) But I also know not to hold my breath, as the weather is nothing if not fickle in this area. Nevertheless, for me, one of the true heralds that spring has arrived is the opening of some favorite seasonal spots in the Boston area. I’m happy to share that several of these are now open, and some are opening in the coming weeks for all to enjoy!

Sullivan’s :: Castle Island, South Boston

This summer mainstay has quite a long season, and it seems to open earlier every year — this year it opened at the end of February and will be open until just after Halloween! Nothing says the beautiful weather is here more than a delicious Sully’s hot dog or lobster roll to be enjoyed right by the water. My family loves to make a day of playing and exploring around Fort Independence, watching the boats and planes nearby, visiting the playground, and then picnicking amongst the seagulls on the many tables in front of Sullivan’s.

The Greenway Carousel :: Rose Kennedy Greenway, Boston (across from the New England Aquarium)

Colorful sea creatures offer rides in the heart of the city as the wind plays with your hair. This merry-go-round is a fun spot to visit as you explore the city. The carousel just opened up for the season and will be open through the fall.  

SoWa Open Market :: South End, Boston

Featuring nearly 200 artisans, a variety of food trucks, musicians, and Boston’s first “Beer Barn” (a taproom and beer hall with lawn games and live music), the SoWa Open Market is a fun weekend stop, and it’s open every Sunday from early May through October.  

Lawn on D :: D Street, South Boston

This outdoor space on the waterfront offers lawn games, food trucks, music, children’s festivals (from time to time), and even “swing time” — something for everyone in the family. Opening in early May, the Lawn on D is a premier outdoor space, full of liveliness and cheer.  

Swan Boats :: Boston Public Garden

From April through Labor Day, the Swan Boats offer a scenic 15-minute exploration of the Public Garden’s lagoon. This classic Boston tradition, which began in 1877, offers one of the best opportunities to explore nature at its finest in one of the most picturesque areas of the city.

What are some of your favorite seasonal spots in Boston to visit at the start of spring?

3 Surprising Emotions From My IVF Journey

Like many couples, my husband and I figured that when we were ready to have children, we would get pregnant easily. We had no reason to assume otherwise. Unfortunately, we were wrong. Upon receiving the news that we would need to go through in vitro fertilization (IVF) in order to get pregnant, our emotions ran the gamut. There were emotions I expected, there were some I was warned about, and there were many more I experienced during our journey. And there were a few additional emotions I did not expect, which took me by surprise.

The lack-of-surprise factor

My mother longed for grandbabies for a long time. I couldn’t wait to someday surprise her with the news that we were pregnant. When I learned we would be going through IVF, I knew I would need the support of close family and friends and therefore confided in a few of them, including her. Though having their support was worth it, it made it not so surprising when I did end up getting pregnant. In the grand scheme of things, it was low on the list of things to worry about, but the emotion was still there.

The guilt

After our first cycle, we were fortunate to end up with several embryos. On our first try with a single embryo, I got pregnant, had a healthy pregnancy, and gave birth to our first baby nine months later. When we were ready for a second, we transferred another one of our embryos on a natural cycle. That embryo split, and we had twins. Most people think of IVF as a long, drawn-out, emotional process, and that was my expectation going in. While our journey was still emotional, we were fortunate to have things go our way at every step. I was surprised at how guilty I felt for having such an “easy” time while so many others have not had things go so smoothly. But I am often reminded that no matter how smoothly things go, IVF is never easy.

The strength

It takes a lot of strength to go through the IVF process, which should not have been surprising to me, but it was. The experience helped me to be really in tune with my body, it taught me patience, and it made me ask lots of questions. It led me to be very well-prepared to keep expectations in check. These tools, unbeknownst at the time, helped me through my pregnancies and births and became valuable tools as I became a parent. 

Being three kids deep into parenthood, I do not reflect too often on my journey with IVF. It is one of those experiences where only those who have gone through it truly know the complexity of the emotions that come along with it, both before, during, and after the process. While there were ups, downs, and a slew of emotions in between, I know it was an experience that has made me a stronger person. For that, and for my three babies, I am grateful.

Moms Get Lice, Too

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One day last summer, I lifted up my daughter’s ball cap to adjust the fit when I spotted something crawling on top of her head. A very little something. A few very little somethings.

LICE.

It wasn’t long before I was peeling out of the driveway for a lice removal center (yes, that’s a thing), kids in the back with ball caps jammed over their infested heads.

Upon arrival, we were ushered inside a small room with a dentist-type chair facing a TV (hello, Clockwork Orange) and made to watch a 10-minute informational video about lice. Unfortunately, in covering the different kinds of lice, the narrator mentioned how a rare body lice could, at one time in history, kill you. My son, 4 at the time, turned to me with wide eyes. “I could die from this?”

Needless to say, the 9-year-old went first. Attacking my daughter’s hair with gusto, the Lice Lady proudly showed me the numerous nits (aka lice eggs) that she combed out and wiped onto her stack of Kleenex. I nodded dumbly. Yup, lice.

And then the 4-year-old went, having been thoroughly reassured that he was not, in fact, dying from the bugs on his head. Once they were both done and handed ice cream cups for their trouble, the Lice Lady turned to me, wielding her many-toothed comb like a dentist drill. “Your turn, Mom.”

Listen. I’m just like you. I’m educated. And health-conscious. And generally pretty clean.

But yes, I had lice, too. 

I had heard about lice since I was a kid, I knew it was a thing, but I never thought it would happen to my family — until there was a house party on my head. And now I can tell you: Lice shame is real. Especially for kids, who care way too much about what their friends think. (Note that I’m posting this anonymously, not for my sake, but for my third-grade daughter’s.)

Turns out it had gone on long enough to reach the whole family. Even my husband had a few, which, oddly, earned him some cred from the Lice Ladies. They said the dads only get it if they’re short (their heads are closer to their kids’ heads) or affectionate and cuddly with their kids. My husband is pretty tall, so I guess in some perverse way, getting lice means he’s a good dad?

Anyway, we all suffered through the embarrassment, not to mention the scalp-scraping removal, and we learned how to get rid of lice going forward. Actually, I’ve now learned more about lice than I EVER wanted to know. To boil it down:

1. If your family gets lice, tell the people who need to know.

The kids’ school nurse and teacher. Close friends and family, especially those who have had extended contact with your kids. Potentially embarrassing, yes, but you’ll appreciate it when someone reveals their infestation so you can give your kids a good check. Remember, no shame.

2. Lice can’t hurt you.

They can itch like heck, if left alone long enough, but they do not carry diseases or otherwise cause harm. 

3. Head lice do not fly or jump; they only crawl.

So the most common way to get lice, by far, is head-to-head contact with another person.

4. Lice can’t live for more than a day or so off the human head.

Which means you don’t need to burn all your kids’ stuffed animals, throw out the sofa, or even shave the cat. Keep cool, lady.

5. If you discover an infestation, it’s wise to start with a professional removal.

This will not only chase off every last nit, it’ll also teach you what you’re looking for. (I mean, these guys are tiny!) In the future, you can do checks yourself with nothing more than a nit comb, a box of Kleenex, and a boatload of conditioner. 

I’m happy to report that my family is lice-free now. Of course, that still means frequent checks. And a good dose of humility. Because now we know that we’re not too good for lice after all.

5 Best Boutique Gyms in Boston

Boston — and Massachusetts in general — is often voted as one of the fittest and most health-conscious cities in the US. With so many gyms, boot camps, and outdoor opportunities to hike, bike, swim, and boat, Boston certainly is a mecca of exercise.

Lately, there has been a bit of a groundswell in large, multi-use gyms hitting the scene and finding a lot of success. Gyms like Equinox, Boston Sports Club, and now Lifetime have it all, including childcare (always a plus!), hot tubs, outdoor pools, and a bountiful amount of healthy snacks. But, all this often comes at a hefty price point.

Today I want to show some love for some of the lesser-known, niche, and boutique gym opportunities that abound in the city and surrounding suburbs. While these gyms may not have all the bells and whistles, they represent the best in certain types of movement specialties or have other qualities that make them hidden gems and ultra-special — and each have their own price points to accommodate most.

1. Gymnasia (Newton and Waltham)

I have been going to Gymnasia for three years, and I’ve never been happier. With a focus on functional movement patterns, body weight exercises, kettlebells, and FUN, this hidden gem helped me to completely change my relationship with exercise. In addition to being challenging, this gym has helped me understand where my own strength resides and how to tap into those movement patterns. I am doing everything from inversions and bear crawls to somersaults and arm balances — things I never thought I could do. The community is fabulous and is appropriate for all ages, sizes, and abilities. There is an abundance of one-on-one support and coaching even within the group classes. I highly recommend it!

2. H.Y.P. Studio (Needham and Wellesley)

Yoga is definitely trendy right now. We see everything from Hatha, Bikram, Vinyasa, and even naked and goat yoga these days! H.Y.P. is my favorite amid a slew of trendy yoga studios, however. They specialize in warm and hot Vinyasa flow. The instructors are grounded, skilled, and adept at reading the energy in the room and adjusting accordingly. I am challenged with the poses and flow but never feel pressured to perform or push myself beyond how my body is feeling that day, and it’s one of the reasons I love this place. (My favorite instructors are Jenna, Laura, and Masaki.)

3. GymIt (Watertown and Boston)

This family-owned gym has two locations — Watertown and Boston. It takes the no-frills approach to exercise and comes at a really affordable price — $24.99 a month. The Watertown location has an outstanding boxing facility and teaches George Foreman-style boxing classes. The boxing workout contains both traditional boxing training along with high-intensity interval training. Both locations offer locker rooms, strength training, and cardio areas.

4. Exhale (Battery Wharf and Back Bay)

Is it a spa? Is it a gym? Actually, it’s both! Exhale is a self-defined “urban oasis” that offers the best of yoga, cardio, and barre classes. But it also allows tired and stressed moms a way to relax, with a full-service spa, including services like “accu-healing” (acupuncture for stress and pain relief) and acu-organ detox, which combines acupuncture and abdominal massage for cleansing and detoxing.

5. Btone Fitness (Back Bay, Chestnut Hill, Wellesley, South Boston, North End, and Lexington)

This innovative boutique gym offers a unique methodology. Btone combines pilates, yoga, barre, and TRX with its own proprietary equipment and modality, focusing on an effective, yet sustainable approach to fitness — and a one-size-does-NOT-fit-all mentality. As such, they offer customized classes and support to create a workout that works for ALL bodies at any level, age, or ability.

There are so many other great fitness offerings in our area — it was very hard to boil it down to five! Some honorable mentions include:

Stil Studio (Legacy Place)
Inner Strength Studio (Watertown and Sudbury)
Burn (Back Bay and South End)
Recycle Studio (South End)

What did I forget? What boutique gyms have you visited that are making an impact on you? Let us know! And let’s get moving this spring in a way that works for any and all of us.

Earth Day Activities for Boston Families and Children

I’m a firm believer in the statement that every day is Earth day! However, the official annual Earth Day holiday falls on Sunday, April 22, this year. Here is a roundup of Boston-area activities for families and children to help you celebrate!

Thursday, April 19

Wall-E Screening (Cambridge) :: 11 a.m.–2 p.m.

Friday, April 20

Earth Day Celebration (EcoTarium, Worcester) :: 10 a.m.–4 p.m.

Saturday, April 21

Annual Spring Cleanup and Barbeque (Somerville) :: 9 a.m. 
ESI Earth Day Celebration (Cambridge) :: 9 a.m.–12 p.m.
Party for the Planet (Franklin Park Zoo, Boston) :: 10 a.m.–3 p.m.
Film for Families: Straws (Wellfleet) :: 1 p.m.

Sunday, April 22

Volunteer Day at Land’s Sake Farm (Weston) :: 10 a.m.–12 p.m.
Earth Day Celebration (Tower Hill Botanical Garden, Boylston) :: 10 a.m.–2 p.m.
Greater Hingham Cleanup Day (Hingham) :: 10 a.m.–12 p.m.
Agricultural Festival (Boston) :: 10 a.m.–4 p.m.
Taza Earth Day Chocolate Dirt Pudding (Boston) :: 12 p.m. or 1:30 p.m.
The Great Arlington Clean-Up Day (Arlington) :: 1:30–3:30 p.m.

Saturday, April 28

Annual Charles River Cleanup (various locations) :: 9 a.m.–12 p.m.
Musketaquid Earth Day (The Umbrella, Concord) :: 10:30 a.m.–2 p.m.

Know of any activities happening in your neighborhood? Let us know, and we’ll add them to our list!

What I Hope They Remember

In my dozen years of parenting, I have found one clichéd statement to ring true.

The days are long, but the years are short.

I looked at my oldest son the other day and realized exactly how true this statement is. The chub is long gone from his cheeks. His once-tiny hands are now nearly as big as mine. The little foot that used to stomp around in my boots can no longer squeeze into those same shoes. Those long days slid into short years, and my baby grew up.

And I don’t remember most of it.

Of course I remember first steps and birthdays. But those other days? The ones that seemed to go on forever as I rocked a fussy infant or calmed a tantruming toddler? Those days have faded into my past, meshing into one another. No longer “Tuesday” but “when he was 6-and-a-half….ish. Or maybe 7…”

I know my kids aren’t going to remember everything about their childhood. I often wonder, though, what are they going to remember about me? What will they tell their own kids about their mom?

Here are a few things I hope they remember:

Our little adventures

We are a large family with a small income. No tropical vacations dazzle in our future. I try to make up for this by putting a huge effort into taking my kids on little adventures. I often spend my spare time scouring Groupon for deals on fun activities, or reserving museum passes from the many local libraries I am a member of. We spend our school vacations and summers finding new playgrounds and hiking trails. Our “big vacation” each year is a long weekend away in New Hampshire with friends, where we use passes to parks that I have purchased months before using a Black Friday deal. Our adventures don’t usually take us far from home, but they are a ton of fun!

How much I cherish my friends

That friend we go to NH with? We met in third grade. I hope that while we are on our vacation together, after all of our children snuggle into their beds at night, they hear us adults laughing around a board game and enjoying a friendship we have cultivated for decades. I hope my kids realize this long-lasting friendship is one of many friendships their dad and I have kept for years.

And while they think about friends, I hope they remember the family-style relationship we have with our neighbors. Doors always open, no knocking required, a box of freeze pops on hand for any kid in the neighborhood all summer long.

How I always found the humor in life

When my kids are adults and look back to their childhood, I hope they remember my silly dances, conga lines through the house, and kick-butt renditions of Toto’s “Africa.” (But I hope when they remember that last part, they remember me with a kick-butt singing voice — not the one I actually have!)

How much I celebrated them

I am always a little bit concerned that my kids will feel lost in the shuffle because they have so many siblings. For this reason, we celebrate. We celebrate big, and we celebrate loud. We have big birthday parties for each of our kids, surrounded by friends and family. I routinely post about their accomplishments on my social media accounts. And that old adage that you have a ton of pictures of the first kid, but less of the others? That one certainly doesn’t apply here. My kids refer to me as the “mama-razzi.”  

How involved I tried to be

With five kids, I know that time constraints will cause me not to be at every activity they participate in. But this doesn’t stop me from trying my hardest! I want them to remember how very hard I tried to simply be there. Yes, it means that nearly every one of my days is spent participating in a PTO event, sitting at a baseball field, or listening to tentative guitar strums. But I genuinely love seeing my kids do things they enjoy, and I want them to know I will make sure to be there for each of them, every chance I get. These years are short, and I intend to fully enjoy them.

When my kids are grown, I hope they remember these long days and short years with fondness. And if they remember nothing else, I hope they can look back on their childhoods and say:

I remember how much my mom loved me. And I remember how hard she tried.

 

But I AM an Athlete :: Fighting the “Cheerleader” Stereotype

Growing up in Texas, I knew from a young age that I wanted to be a cheerleader. After all, as the nation knows, Texas’ “Friday night lights” culture is strong. And being part of that culture is in every good Texan’s blood.

As a teen, I bled my school’s colors, cheering on my beloved Rattlers each week during the fall.

But it wasn’t just football and basketball games that filled my time. My time (and the rest of my squad’s time) was filled with cheer practice, strength training, stunt practice, or tumbling at the gym — six out of seven days each week. It wasn’t because we wanted to look super awesome on the sidelines of the game; it was because we, like many other cheerleaders, were gearing up for competition.

Yes, competition.

Like, the thing “athletes” do. And based on the definition of an athlete, cheerleaders are about as athletic as they come.

Merriam Webster’s definition of an athlete is, “a person who is trained or skilled in exercises, sports, or games requiring physical strength, agility, or stamina.” But yet, the fact that cheerleaders can tumble on the floor at the level of an Olympiad, hoist a girl into the air with grace and ease, jump as high and with as much flexibility as a rhythmic gymnast, and dance with as sweet of moves as a renowned hip-hop group continues to be lost upon so many.

Nevermind that all of the above check the proverbial boxes of “athlete” requirements.

I know this not just because I lived it (I’m over that), but because my 7-year-old daughter now cheers competitively. And my 11-year-old son constantly tells her that “cheerleading is NOT a sport.” (By the way, the definition of “sport” is “physical activity (as running or an athletic game) engaged in for pleasure or exercise.” Pretty sure cheerleading checks those boxes, too.)

Sure, it grinds my gears to hear him say this. But he only says it because that’s the resounding sentiment from not only his friends but from many in our community, as well as the media.

You see, even though cheerleading has evolved from bobby socks and yelling, “rah-rah-sis-boom-bah,” somehow the only ones who have noticed this evolution are those who have witnessed the intense training and performance of today’s cheerleaders.

Today’s cheerleader is not the stereotypical blonde-haired, not-so-bright, girl-in-a-short-skirt who stands around at a football game jumping around without much purpose other than to say, “go team!”

Cheerleading isn’t an activity that permits only the girl with the most friends who twirls her hair around her finger as she walks through the school with her quarterback boyfriend (did that actually ever happen?) to be a part of it.

And no longer is cheerleading an activity that has a sole purpose of cheering for the boys on the sidelines.

Cheerleading is a sport. One that requires extreme physical strength and coordination.

Being a cheerleader doesn’t just mean you cheer for the boys on the sidelines; it means you are an athlete. I was an athlete. My daughter is an athlete. Cheerleaders are athletes.

Searching For Great Child Care? Ask These 9 Key Questions

We have partnered with KinderCare to bring relevant and important information to BMB readers through this sponsored post.

Join KinderCare Learning Centers at a participating center in the Boston area for an open house on April 28. Take a tour, meet their team, explore classroom activities (great for helping little minds grow!), and find out what makes KinderCare the leader in early childhood education. KinderCare is offering free registration when you attend an open house and begin the enrollment process. Click here to RSVP to an open house in your area.

Choosing the perfect child care center is a big deal, and it can be stressful. You want to pick a place where your child will be happy, loved, nurtured, and safe. Ask these nine key questions at every center you visit to figure out the best fit for your family.

1. Do the teachers love working with children?

During the first few years of life, caring interactions with adults are essential to building a child’s brain. When you visit a center, take note of how the teachers interact with children: Are they kind and responsive? Do they ask big questions and encourage learning? Look for teachers who smile and babble with babies, share laughs with kids, and physically get down to kid level when speaking with children (this shows kids that their point of view matters).

2. What will my child’s learning look like — at every stage and age?

More than 70 percent of brain development happens by the age of 3, so an educational approach in these early years in a must. Great learning centers offer activities tailored to the learning goals of each age group — and have a staff that understands your child’s learning goals and how to reach them. Ask for concrete examples of activities and how they help your child learn and grow, like is there tummy time to help build your baby’s confidence?

3. Will my baby be safe — even when she sleeps?

Any child care center you visit should be very knowledgeable about safe sleep standards of care and rigorous about practicing them (especially in the infant room). When you’re on a tour, ask teachers and center directors about their safe sleep practices: Are babies always put to sleep on their backs? Are cribs free of stuffed animals and other hazards? And most importantly — is a mindful teacher keeping watch over the children as they sleep?

4. Will my baby feel happy here?

When kids are in a warm and inviting atmosphere, they feel happy and eager to learn — and when you visit a center, you should feel it too. Ask yourself: Does this center feel welcoming? Are the children happy and thriving? Are the rooms clean, organized, and well-maintained? Is there a fun, safe place to play outside?

5. Are there lots of great books within easy reach of little hands?

It seems like a small question, but when you’re only two feet tall, it’s a big one — and the answer can give you important info about the center. Why? When children are given the freedom to choose their own books (or toys or activities), they develop curiosity, independence, and confidence all on their own.

6. Is my child’s teacher terrific?

When you visit a classroom, ask the teacher how she makes reading and math fun. From silly alphabet sing-alongs to counting ladybug spots, a trained teacher will have a million great ideas. Notice if she asks kids open-ended questions like, “How did that happen?” or “What do you see?” These kinds of questions foster critical and creative thinking. You might even ask how she fosters social and emotional development — these crucial skills make it easier for children to succeed in school and are best taught during early years.

7. If there’s an emergency, how are children kept safe?

Emergencies — like floods, fires, or tornadoes — can happen at any time, and your child care center should always be ready to keep children safe during a crisis. When you visit, talk to the center director about emergency preparedness.

8. Will my child be celebrated for who she is?

On a tour, watch to see if the teachers and center director make a genuine effort to connect with your child. Did they ask her name? Did they include her in classroom activities and ask about her interests? When teachers celebrate the budding individuals in their classrooms, they help children uncover new passions and interests, encourage independence, and teach the whole class to respect and care for others.

9. Did I feel listened to?

Did the center staff ask you questions about your family? Good teachers and center directors will actively try to learn about your family’s needs and will understand and respect them — whether you’re concerned about your preschooler’s reading ability, your baby’s nap schedule, or special dietary restrictions. Good communication between families and center staff can help solve all sorts of daily child care challenges (from potty-training hurdles to a misplaced beloved teddy bear), so make sure that open dialogue starts with your first visit.


About KinderCare® Learning Centers

For nearly 50 years, KinderCare Learning Centers have been a place where every child can learn, explore, and discover in a safe and nurturing environment in more than 1,350 community-based centers. KinderCare leads the nation in accredited centers and is passionate about providing children a sense of discovery while building confidence that they’ll carry with them for life. To learn more, visit KinderCare online at www.KinderCare.com, on Facebook, or on Instagram. For resources, information, and activity ideas for parents and teachers of young children please visit www.KinderCare.com/content-hub.

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Live music is a fantastic experience, no matter your age! Who doesn't remember the excitement of seeing a band perform live on stage for the first time? Taking your kids to a live concert can be a bit tricky, though. There is only so much Kidz Bop a parent can take. But is a "real" concert going to be family friendly? Here are a few bands that put on a great show that will be loved by both the parents and the kids alike!