I Am a Patriots Fan, But Not For the Reasons You Might Think!

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The Patriots are kind of a big deal around here.

My kids own no less than a dozen Patriots shirts. Posters of the team are taped to their bedroom walls. Hats, gloves, backpacks, stuffed animals, hair bows, and school supplies are emblazoned with the Pats logo.

The days leading up to a Patriots Super Bowl are met with frenzied excitement. My neighbor and I send each other endless Pinterest recipes as we plan our Super Bowl Sunday feast. When the hallowed day finally arrives, we spend the morning attempting to recreate the Pinterest goodies (which sometimes results in epic Pinterest fails). Furniture is pushed aside. Pictures are taken down. And the game is projected in monstrous glory onto the wall. Our children leap around the room, clad head to toe in Patriots gear, hooting and hollering for their team. It is a day our families look forward to all year round.

The biggest reason I am a Patriots fan, though? Well, it isn’t because of what they do on the field.

Don’t get me wrong. I love to watch the games. But it’s what the Patriot’s do off the field that makes me a true fan.

The Patriots have made a huge impact on our family through charitable giving to communities around New England. My family lives in Brockton, a city where one in six people live at or below the poverty line. A great focus has been given to helping the children in my underprivileged community.

As for physically seeing it in action? The focus on children isn’t just words on paper. It isn’t grant money being mailed without a single person being seen. It is far more than that.

In 2013, Gronk donated nearly $45,000 worth of football equipment to Brockton’s struggling Pop Warner football team. On the day the donation came, so did Gronk himself. He spent the day posing with children and hand delivering helmets to the thrilled kids. Because of his donation, our program was able to continue running.

For the past few years, my children have been enthralled as Patriots players and cheerleaders have come to their classrooms to read books to students in support of Read Across America and have taken the time to pose for pictures with every child in the school. (And with this PTO mom! Harvey Langi may be on the Jets now, but his kindness to the kids that day has made me a forever fan!)

Our school also has a personal connection to the Patriots. The daughter of one of our kindergarten teachers is a Patriots cheerleader. Nicolette often substitute teaches at our school, and she embraces the excitement of the children every time she visits, answering questions to the delight of the students. During every game, my kindergartener sits glued to the television, shrieking “I know her!” any time he sees her on the screen. (Shh, he may have a bit of a crush!)

And, potentially the largest impact? The construction of a Patriots-themed playground, right in my neighborhood! Previously a space with only run-down basketball courts and a rusted slide, this playground has created a beautiful, safe place for the children in our community to play. During the summers, this playground is now used to house a summer camp for students in Brockton, which they are invited to attend free of charge. Fourth graders from my children’s school were invited to be the first to play on this gorgeous space during its grand opening, where they met former players, gave high-fives to Pat the Patriot, and reveled in the joy that this donation has brought to our youth.

Football games are fun to watch. I will always love gathering with friends and cheering on my home team. But football is about more than just watching a sports team. It brings us together as a community, in so many ways. Just ask the kids.

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My Back-to-School Playlist

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I’m sure all the cool parents out there are listening to top 40 radio and singing along to the newest Jonas Brothers song. (Fun fact, no matter how many times someone tells me names of all three Jonas Brothers, I simply cannot retain them. There is the one married to Sansa Stark, the one with the face, and one named Greg, right? Or something like that.) But that’s not me. The soundtrack to my back-to-school season has fewer digitally manipulated vocal tracks and more shouts of, “No, I do not know where your sneakers are! This is why I tell you to put them in the shoe bin!”

So, to properly embrace who I am and stand in my truth, I present to you my back-to-school playlist. 

It’s Gonna Be Me by *NSYNC

Anyone else feel like this all the time in the fall? Who is going to forget it’s class picture day? It’s gonna be me! Who is going to pack yogurt for her kid’s snack but forget to include a spoon? It’s gonna be me! (Side note: If you haven’t seen this *NSYNC video in a while, please take a few more minutes out of your day to do so immediately. It’s gloriously terrible.)

I’m Not Ready to Make Nice by Dixie Chicks

Man, can the transition back to school be a tough one for kids — particularly energetic ones like mine who are used to running around all day at camp and are now asked to sit still for large portions of the day. Sometimes by the time he gets home, his patience and good humor for the day are all used up. He is at max capacity, the poor guy, and out of energy to be pleasant. Ready to make nice? Strong no. Ready to make a giant mess of toys or run circles around the house with the dog chasing behind? Solid yes. 

I Want It That Way by Backstreet Boys

Turns out that children are real people who come with independent thoughts and feelings, and they get even more of those the older they are… which is so much fun and also a total bummer. 

Every Rose Has Its Thorn by Poison

As my son attends the local public school, the school year is a heck of a lot less expensive than summer camp. Rose! But we have to pack a snack for him every day. Every day. Every. Single. Day. Of the school year. The whole year. THORN. Did you know it’s possible for some brands of granola bars to be too crumbly? Did you know it’s possible for some types of fruit cups to be too juicy? Surprise. 

Raise Your Glass by Pink

Look, I don’t judge. Sometimes that post-bedtime glass of wine is what helps us live to parent another day. 

Don’t Stop Believing by Journey

Hold on to that feelin’, friends. What feeling? The feeling of warm summer nights, vacations, and the low-key pace of summer. It will be summer again before we know it. Only nine more months to go.


Massachusetts Bike Trails, Paths, and Rail Trails for the Whole Family!

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There is nothing quite like the feeling of the wind in your hair as you glide along on your bike! If you are looking for the perfect, safe spot for a ride, check out some of these great Massachusetts bike trails with your family!

Alfred J. Lima Quequechan River Rail Trail

Fall River :: 1.4 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at Britland Park (Wordell St.) and behind UMass CIE (151 Martine St.).

Phoenix Bike Trail

Fairhaven :: 4 miles, asphalt

Parking is available on South St. in the city parking lot at the ferry maintenance dock.

World War II Veterans Memorial Trail

Mansfield :: 1.2 miles, asphalt

Public parking can be found off of Union St. at the Mansfield town square.

Amesbury Riverwalk

Amesbury :: 1.3 miles, asphalt

Trailhead is in Heritage Park. Parking can be accessed from County Rd./Water St. or, at the opposite end, behind the Carriagetown Marketplace shopping center.

Border to Boston Trail

Runs from Peabody to Boxford :: 10.7 miles, crushed stone and dirt

Parking at the Peabody trailhead is available on Lowell St. Parking at the Boxford trailhead is available on Pye Brook Lane.

Bradford Rail Trail

Bradford :: 1.3 miles, asphalt

While there is no designated parking lot for the trail, parking is available along nearby city streets. Trailheads are located at Middlesex St. and South Elm St.

Bridge Street Bike Trail

Salem :: 1 mile, asphalt

Trail runs from March St. to Bridge St. Paid parking is available off of Bridge St. near the MBTA rail station.

Clipper City Rail Trail and Harborwalk

Newburyport :: 3.9 miles, asphalt and boardwalk

Parking is available at Cashman Park (5 Pop Crowley Way) along the waterfront or at the Newburyport MBTA station.

Gloria Braunhardt Bike Path

Newburyport :: 1.2 miles, asphalt, dirt, and grass

Parking is available in the park-and-ride lot on Storey Ave. and on Hale St., a couple hundred yards east of the I-95 overpass.

Haggetts Rail Trail

Andover :: 2 miles, crushed stone

A parking lot is located right next to the southern trailhead, off of Haggetts Pond Rd.

Independence Greenway

Peabody :: 5.3 miles, asphalt

Parking at the northwestern trailhead is available on Russell St. and at the Northshore Mall trailhead on Essex Center Dr.

Marblehead Rail Trail

Runs from Marblehead to Salem :: 4 miles, asphalt, dirt, gravel, and sand

Parking on the Marblehead trailhead is available on either side of Round House Rd.

Methuen Rail Trail

Runs from Lawrence to Salem :: 2.4 miles, crushed stone

Parking is available on Hampshire Rd. in Salem, at the Methuen Railroad Depot (on the corner of Railroad and Union St.), and at Manchester Street Park (77 Manchester St.) in Lawrence.

Northern Strand Community Trail

Runs from Everett to Saugus :: 8 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

Old Eastern Marsh Trail

Salisbury :: 1.4 miles, asphalt

A parking lot is available on Friedenfels St.

Salem-Beverly Canal Path (Grand Wenham Canal Path)

Runs from Topsfield to Wenham :: 2 miles, dirt and grass

Parking is available off of Cherry St. in Wenham.

Salisbury Beach State Reservation Trail

Salisbury :: .6 miles, crushed stone and grass

Parking can be found in the Salisbury Beach State Reservation (Beach Road Route 1A).

Salisbury Point Ghost Trail

Salisbury :: 1.8 miles, crushed stone

Parking areas are located at Lion’s Park and on Bartlett St. and Rabbit Rd.

Salisbury Rail Trail Connector

Salisbury :: .3 miles, asphalt

A parking area is available on Friedenfels Rd. off of US Route 1 in Salisbury.

Spicket River Greenway

Runs from Derry, NH, through Methuen and Lawrence :: 3.5 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at Manchester Street Park (77 Manchester St., Lawrence).

Ashuwillticook Rail Trail

Runs from Lanesboro to Adams :: 11.9 miles, asphalt

Parking is available on the left and right sides of US 7/MA 8 Connector Rd. at the Lanesboro trailhead. Parking is available on Depot St. at the Adams trailhead.

Assabet River Rail Trail

Runs through Marlborough, Hudson, Maynard, and Acton :: 8.6 miles, asphalt

Parking at the Acton trailhead is available on Maple St., parking at the Maynard trailhead (Ice House Landing) is available on Winter St., parking at the Hudson trailhead is located on MA 62/Wilkins St., and parking in Marlborough is available on Hudson St. (the trail ends .3 miles to the south of the parking area).

Bruce Freeman Rail Trail

Runs from Chelmsford to Acton :: 11.7 miles, asphalt

The trail begins at the northern trailhead with a tunnel under the Northwest Expressway/US 3. The trail has a designated parking area in the office building parking lot on MA 110 W/Chelmsford St.

Center Trail

Hopkinton :: .6 miles, crushed stone

Limited parking for the Center Trail can be found at the Hopkinton school complex athletic fields on Loop Rd. (off Hayden Rowe St.).

Charles River Bike Path

Runs from Boston to Waltham :: 22.9 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at the Boston trailhead in the Museum of Science parking garage, and at the Cooper St. parking lot in Waltham.

Cochituate Rail Trail

Runs from Framingham to Natick :: Currently 1.1 miles, asphalt

The Cochituate Rail Trail is a developing, multi-use trail that will run from the Village of Saxonville in Framingham to Natick Center. When complete, it will span a distance of four miles.

Concord River Greenway

Lowell :: 2 miles, asphalt

A parking lot with bike racks is available on Lawrence Street.

Fresh Pond Bikeway

Cambridge :: .7 miles, asphalt

Parking is available near Kingsley Park (250 Fresh Pond Pkwy.) and at William G. Maher Park (650 Concord Ave.). The north end of the bikeway is 0.6 miles away from the Alewife T stop and also accessible by bus.

Lowell Canal System Trails

Lowell :: 1.9 miles, asphalt and concrete

Parking is available at the visitor center on Dutton St.

Malden River Greenway

Runs from Malden to Everett :: 2.5 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

There is no official trail parking, but trail users are welcome to park at the Gateway Center (1 Mystic View Rd., Everett).

Mass Central Rail Trail

Runs from Somerville to Leeds :: 38 miles, asphalt, cinder, crushed stone, dirt, and gravel

The Massachusetts Central Railroad was destroyed by a hurricane in 1938, but the 104-mile corridor is being reborn as a cross-state rail trail. Currently, nearly 40 miles from Boston to Northampton have been converted to trails.

Somerville Community Path, Alewife Linear Park, and Fitchburg Cutoff Path

Begins on Lowell St. in Somerville. Parking is available at the Alewife T station.

Wachusett Greenways Section (Sterling to Barre)

This segmented section begins at the Cider Mill Shops in Sterling. Parking is available on Waushacum Ave. in Sterling, at the Wachusett Reservoir on Thomas St. in Holden, and on Glenwood Rd. in Rutland.

Hardwick Section

This three-mile section of trail runs through open fields and deep woods. Parking is available on Hardwick Rd. Turn right after West Rd. The parking area will be a mowed grassy area on your right. 

Norwottuck Branch (Belchertown to Northampton)

This 10-mile section also connects Hadley and Amherst. Parking is available on Warren Wright Rd. in Belchertown and on Mill Lane in Amherst, along with many smaller parking locations along the trail.

Francis P. Ryan Bikeway

This section travels through Look Park in Northampton, through Florence, and ends in Leeds. Parking is available at Look Park.

Minuteman Commuter Bikeway

Runs from West Cambridge to Bedford :: 10.1 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at the Bedford Depot Park or at the Alewife T Station. A Blue Bikes bike-share station is located at the Alewife Station. Pick up the trail on the north side of the terminal.

Mystic River Greenway

Runs from Somerville to Arlington :: 4 miles, asphalt and boardwalk

Parking is available at Draw Seven Park (Noonan Place, Somerville), at Blessing of the Bay Boat House (32 Shore Dr., Somerville), and in the Mystic River Reservation on Mystic Valley Parkway in Medford. The trail is also accessible from the Assembly T stop.

Narrow-Gauge Rail Trail

Bedford :: 3 miles, asphalt, crushed stone and dirt

Parking is available on Loomis St. and on Sweetwater Ave.

Nashua River Rail Trail

Runs from Ayer to Nashua, New Hampshire :: 12.3 miles, asphalt

Parking is available on Country Side Dr. in Nashua, on Main St. in East Pepperell, on Sand Hill Rd. in Groton, and on Groton St. in Ayer.

North Bank Bridge

Runs from Cambridge to Charlestown :: .5 miles, concrete

Public transportation access to the trail is available via MBTA’s North Station. A limited number of parking spaces are available at the North Point Park entrance.

Northern Strand Community Trail

Runs from Everett to Saugus :: 8 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

Tri-Community Greenway

Runs from Winchester to Stoneham :: 6.6 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at the Wedgemere MBTA Station (25 Mystic Valley Pkwy., Winchester), at Pomeworth Field (12 Calthea St., Stoneham), and in the parking lot on Pleasant St. in Stoneham.

Upper Charles Trail

Runs from the Holliston/Sherborn town line to the Hopkinton/Milford town line :: 13.2 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

Parking is available in Holliston in Blair Square off Front St., in a municipal parking lot off Exchange St., at Fino Field on Sumner St. in Milford, at Louisa Lake Park in Milford, and in the parking lot on Cedar St. in Hopkinton.

Upper Falls Greenway

Newton :: 1 mile, crushed stone

Limited on-street parking is available on Chestnut St.

Watertown-Cambridge Greenway

Watertown :: .7 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at Arsenal Park (485 Arsenal St.).

Wellington Greenway

Medford :: 2.5 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at Torbert Macdonald State Park (4253 Mystic Valley Pkwy.), and the trail is accessible from the Wellington T stop.

Bay Colony Rail Trail

Needham :: 1.7 miles, crushed stone

Parking is available at Red Wing Bay on the south side of Fisher St.

Pine Tree Brook/Popes Pond Path

Milton :: 2 miles, asphalt, dirt, and woodchips

The best access to the trail is on Sumner St. via Canton Avenue. There are multiple access points throughout the neighborhood and there is on-street parking.

Whitney Spur Rail Trail

Cohasset :: 1.6 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

Parking is available at the MBTA Cohasset Station on Chief Justice Cushing Hwy. There is a $4 fee to park.

Blackstone River Greenway

Runs from South Worcester to Providence, Rhode Island :: 26.6 miles, asphalt, boardwalk, crushed stone, dirt

Parking at the trailhead in Worcester is available on Cliff St. Trail access and parking are also available at the River Bend Farm Visitor Center in Canal Heritage State Park in Uxbridge. Parking in Woonsocket, RI, is available on Davison Ave. (the parking lot is located just past the Veterans Memorial, and trail access is at the south end of the parking lot). Parking at the Lonsdale trailhead is available at Blackstone River State Park. 

Mass Central Rail Trail

Runs from Somerville to Leeds :: 38 miles, asphalt, cinder, crushed stone, dirt, and gravel

The Massachusetts Central Railroad was destroyed by a hurricane in 1938, but the 104-mile corridor is being reborn as a cross-state rail-trail. Currently, nearly 40 miles from Boston to Northampton have been converted to trails.

Somerville Community Path, Alewife Linear Park, and Fitchburg Cutoff Path

Begins on Lowell St. in Somerville. Parking is available at the Alewife T station.

Wachusett Greenways Section (Sterling to Barre)

This segmented section begins at the Cider Mill Shops in Sterling. Parking is available on Waushacum Ave. in Sterling, at the Wachusett Reservoir on Thomas St. in Holden, and on Glenwood Rd. in Rutland.

Hardwick Section

This three-mile section of trail runs through open fields and deep woods. Parking is available on Hardwick Rd. Turn right after West Rd. The parking area will be a mowed grassy area on your right. 

Norwottuck Branch (Belchertown to Northampton)

This 10-mile section also connects Hadley and Amherst. Parking is available on Warren Wright Rd. in Belchertown, and on Mill Lane in Amherst, along with many smaller parking locations along the trail.

Francis P. Ryan Bikeway

This section travels through Look Park in Northampton, through Florence, and ends in Leeds. Parking is available at Look Park.

North Central Pathway

Runs from Winchendon to Gardner :: 8.9 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at the Clark Memorial YMCA in Winchendon, and in the parking lot on Old Gardner Rd.

South Spencer Rail Trail

Spencer :: 1.62 miles, crushed stone

Parking is available at the southern trailhead on S. Spencer Rd.

Upper Charles Trail

Runs from the Holliston/Sherborn town line to the Hopkinton/Milford town line :: 13.2 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

Parking is available in Holliston in Blair Square off Front St., in a municipal parking lot off Exchange St., at Fino Field on Sumner St. in Milford, at Louisa Lake Park in Milford, and in the parking lot on Cedar St. in Hopkinton.

Westville Lake Community Trail

Southbridge :: .7 miles, crushed stone

Parking is available in the Westville Recreation Area on Breakneck Rd.

Canalside Rail Trail

Runs from Deerfield to Montague :: 3.6 miles, asphalt

Montague trailhead is in Unity Park. Parking is located in several places, just past Montague Town Hall or at the baseball fields on First St. Parking at the Deerfield trailhead is located at Railroad Yard Rd.

Cape Cod Canal Bikeway

Runs from the visitor center in Buzzards Bay to Sandwich Marina Park :: 13.9 miles, asphalt

Parking lots are located at the Buzzards Bay Visitor Center, the East Canal Lot in the Scusset Beach State Reservation, on Bell Rd. in the Tidal Flats Recreation Area and on Freezer Rd. in the Sandwich Marina Park.

Cape Cod Rail Trail

Runs from South Dennis to Wellfleet :: 27.5 miles, asphalt

Parking is available on Station Ave. in Yarmouth, and on Lecount Hollow Rd./Maguire Landing in Wellfleet.

Head of the Meadow Trail

Truro :: 2 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at Head of the Meadow Beach on Head of the Meadow Rd.

Nauset Trail

Eastham :: 1.6 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at the Salt Pond Visitor Center (50 Nauset Rd.).

Old Colony Rail Trail

Runs from Harwich to Chatham :: 8 miles, asphalt

Parking is available on Hitching Post Rd. in Chatham.

Province Lands Bike Trail

Provincetown :: 7 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at Herring Cove Beach, and at Race Point Beach, Beech Forest Trail, or the Province Lands Visitor Center on Race Point Rd.

Shining Sea Bikeway

Runs from Falmouth to Woods Hole :: 10.7 miles, asphalt

Parking is available on Depot Rd. in Falmouth, and there is a free parking lot in Woods Hole between the Church St. and Nobska Rd. bridges. On-street, metered parking is also available on Water St. and Luscombe Ave.

Charles River Bike Path

Runs from Boston to Waltham :: 22.9 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at the Boston trailhead in the Museum of Science parking garage, and at the Cooper St. parking lot in Waltham.

East Boston Greenway

East Boston :: 2.8 miles, asphalt

Most easily accessed by the Blue Line (Maverick, Orient Heights, or Wood Island stations). Parking is available at Constitution Beach, on Barnes Ave.

Neponset River Greenway

Runs from Dorchester to Readville :: 8.2 miles, asphalt

Parking is available at Tenean Beach on Conley St., or at the Mattapan MBTA station.

South Bay Harbor Trail

Boston :: 3.8 miles, asphalt, boardwalk, brick, and concrete

Access to the trail is most easily available via the MBTA subway system. Bikes are allowed on the MBTA, just not during rush hours (7–10 a.m. and 4–7 p.m. weekdays) due to crowding. The west end of the trail begins at Ruggles Station (at the intersection of Ruggles St. and Tremont St.) on the Orange Line. Mid-trail, the route passes the Broadway Station (at the intersection of Dorchester Ave. and Broadway), on the Red Line. Near the east end of the trail, South Station is located across the Summer St. bridge, on the Red Line.

Southwest Corridor Park (Pierre Lallement Bike Path)

Runs from Boston to Jamaica Plain :: 4.1 miles, asphalt

The northern trailhead is at the Back Bay T station on Dartmouth St., and the southern trailhead is at Forest Hills T station on Washington St. Paid parking is available at these locations.

Chicopee River Canal Rail Trail

Chicopee :: .21 miles, asphalt

On-street parking spaces can be found at the trailhead on Front St. across from the Chicopee City Hall Annex.

Columbia Greenway Rail Trail

Westfield :: 2.4 miles, asphalt

A parking lot is available behind the Shaker Farms Country Club (866 Shaker Rd.).

Connecticut Riverwalk and Bikeway

Runs from Springfield to Agawam :: 5.4 miles, asphalt

Parking is available in Springfield at North Riverfront Park (121 West St.) and at the Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame (1000 Hall Fame Ave.). Parking at the Agawam trailhead is located at Borgati Park (257 River Rd., Agawam).

Redstone Rail Trail

East Longmeadow :: 1.4 miles, asphalt

Access to the trail and parking can be found in three locations: on the northern end along Maple St. near the East Longmeadow Rotary; mid-trail off Chesnut St.; and on the southern end at Denslow St.

Southwick Rail Trail

Westfield :: 6.5 miles, asphalt

Parking is available on Congamond Rd.

Goose Pond Path

Nantucket :: .1 miles, asphalt

Trailheads are located at Washington St. Extension and Goose Pond Lane.

Hanover Branch Rail Trail

Runs from Abington to Rockland :: 2.6 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

A parking lot is available in Rockland at the intersection of Union St. and E. Water St.

Mattapoisett Rail Trail

Mattapoisett :: 1.1 miles, asphalt

Access the Mattapoisett Rail Trail from Brandt Island Rd. or from the Phoenix Bike Trail.

Whitney Spur Rail Trail

Cohasset :: 1.6 miles, asphalt and crushed stone

Parking is available at the MBTA’s Cohasset Station on Chief Justice Cushing Highway. There is a $4 fee to park.

Manhan Rail Trail

Runs from Easthampton to Northampton :: 9.6 miles, asphalt

Public parking is available at the Northampton trailhead at Veterans Field on West St. Parking at the Easthampton trailhead is located at Millside Park.

Mass Central Rail Trail

Runs from Somerville to Leeds :: 38 miles, asphalt, cinder, crushed stone, dirt, and gravel

The Massachusetts Central Railroad was destroyed by a hurricane in 1938, but the 104-mile corridor is being reborn as a cross-state rail trail. Currently, nearly 40 miles from Boston to Northampton have been converted to trails.

Somerville Community Path, Alewife Linear Park, and Fitchburg Cutoff Path

Begins on Lowell St. in Somerville. Parking is available at the Alewife T station.

Wachusett Greenways Section (Sterling to Barre)

This segmented section begins at the Cider Mill Shops in Sterling. Parking is available on Waushacum Ave. in Sterling, at the Wachusett Reservoir on Thomas St. in Holden, and on Glenwood Rd. in Rutland.

Hardwick Section

This three-mile section of trail runs through open fields and deep woods. Parking is available on Hardwick Rd. Turn right after West Rd. The parking area will be a mowed grassy area on the right. 

Norwottuck Branch (Belchertown to Northampton)

This 10-mile section also connects Hadley and Amherst. Parking is available on Warren Wright Rd. in Belchertown and on Mill Lane in Amherst, along with many smaller parking locations along the trail.

Francis P. Ryan Bikeway

This section travels through Look Park in Northampton, through Florence, and ends in Leeds. Parking is available at Look Park.

Massachusetts Bike Trails, Paths, and Rail Trails for the Whole Family! _ Boston Moms Blog

Getting-Out Guide :: Boston’s Best Events for Families This September

Summer has gone, the kiddos are back in school, and the crisp breeze of autumn is just around the corner! Welcome, September!

In addition to this guide, our calendar has daily events listed to keep you active and entertained this month!

We’ve also included links to area libraries and recurring events. We know this is not a comprehensive list, so if you think of any fun family activities we missed, please share them with us in the comments.

If you are looking to connect with other moms near you, make sure to join our Community & Conversation Group!

August 31–September 8 :: Sunflower Festival 2019 :: Lanni Orchards, Lunenburg

There is nothing happier than a sunflower! Come enjoy the beauty of over four acres of blooms in a variety of colors! Use them as a cheerful photo backdrop, and bring some flowers home to enjoy!

August 31–September 2 :: Appleseed Country Fair :: Red Apple Farm, Phillipston

Come enjoy live music and all the country fair foods you can imagine! There will also be hot air balloons for photo opportunities, and the adorable dogs of Pups in the Air of New England will delight you with their amazing tricks!

September 1–October 6 :: Little Shop of Horrors :: Lyric Stage Company, Boston

Join Seymour and his love Audrey as everyone’s favorite conniving, carnivorous, singing plant promises to fulfill his every wish in this award-winning sci-pulp musical!

September 1 :: Back-to-School Bash :: Mt. Vernon Street, Lynn

Many organizations in Lynn have come together to form this community Back-to-School Bash! There will be music by a DJ, free hair cuts, free hair styles, backpack giveaways, and much more fun!

September 6 :: Norwood Day Fireworks :: Coakley Middle School, Norwood

This beautiful fireworks display kicks off the Norwood Day celebration! Fireworks will begin at 9 p.m. at Coakley Middle School. Norwood Day will be held the following day, September 7, from 9–2:30. There will be a parade, carnival kiddie rides, pony rides, a stage with entertainment, and more!

September 7 :: Paint N Skate: Back to School! :: Chez Vous Roller Skating Rink Boston

Join Chez-Vous and Diane Vivian productions for a back to school themed Paint N Skate! There will be performances, giveaways, and much more during this day of family fun! Advance tickets are good for one skate rental and one canvas to paint. For more info please call 617-825-6877.

September 7 :: Litty Ligo Back-to-School Community Day :: Tobin Community Center, Roxbury Crossing

The goal of this back-to-school event is to teach children about community. There will be backpack, school supply, and hygiene product giveaways, as well as many activities for children of all interests, including exercise, art, meditation, video games, and much more. Please pre-register here.

September 8 :: Family Fall Kick-Off Concert with Ellen Allard :: Hill House, Boston

Bring along a donation of a new school supply or back-to-school item, and rock your socks off at this back-to-school concert featuring Jewish musician Ellen Allard. Welcome fall and celebrate the upcoming Jewish high holidays through music, movement, and fun.

September 8 :: Free Grandparents Day at Edaville Family Theme Park :: Edaville Family Theme Park, Carver

To celebrate Grandparents Day, grandparents will receive free admission to Edaville with the purchase of any regularly priced 4-and-over admission.

September 12 :: Jojo Siwa Dog or Unicorn Painting Event :: Barrett’s Ale House, Fall River

Unleash your inner Jojo! An artist will guide you through the steps to create your very own canvas painting of either Jojo’s dog or unicorn! Participants will also receive a cupcake and a glitter tattoo.

September 14 :: Apple Harvest Festival :: East Walpole

Head on over to this free festival to enjoy train rides, midway games, silent auction, homemade chowder, apple crisp, baby animals, and more!

September 14 :: Last Call Before Fall End-of-Summer Bash :: Titus Sparrow Park, South Boston

Come to Titus Sparrow Park in South Boston between 3 and 5 p.m. for this free family event! There will be balloons, bubbles, bounce houses, face painting, games, snow cones, and more to celebrate the end of summer! Hosted by Renewal Church. All are welcome!

September 16 :: Sensory Art for 12–36 Month Olds :: Little Happynest, Charlestown

Come get messy and learn about art through play and sensory exploration! Help your little one use their imagination as they play in sensory bins and create with paint, stamps, and more! Children will also learn some songs and baby signs, and get to play with exciting toys like parachutes and bubbles!

September 17 :: Drool Baby Expo :: Boston

Just welcome a new baby? Expecting a little one in your near future? Then this is perfect for you! This fantastic event allows you to interact with over 80 companies so that you can learn about the best baby gear and resources for you and your little one!

September 18 :: The Aquabats :: The Paradise Rock Club, Boston

Calling all kids! Are you ready for an adventure? Join this band of costume-clad crime fighters (made famous on the kids show “Yo Gabba Gabba!”) as they battle all things lame in the pursuit of ultimate radness! Who will win in the ultimate showdown between good and evil? Show up to find out!

September 21 :: Free Museum Day :: Various Museums

Participating museums and cultural institutions across the country will provide free entry during this exciting one-day event! Each ticket admits two people to any participating museum. One ticket can be downloaded per email address.

September 21 :: Annual Fall Festival :: Weir River Farm, Hingham

Visit with the adorable farm animals, climb aboard a tractor, paint your own pumpkin, learn about beekeeping, press your own apple cider, challenge your friends at the potato spoon, and make sure to enjoy an HKS Clydesdales wagon ride tour of the Weir River Farm! This fun day is not to be missed!

September 21 :: Berserk – A Viking Festival for All Ages :: The Scandinavian Cultural Center, West Newton

Interact with a live Viking encampment on the front lawn, and see traditional Viking-era crafts, games and combat demonstrations! Participants are invited to browse the goods of Nordic vendors, play Kubb and Molkky and even take a traditional Finnish sauna by Abundance Sauna (an extra fee applies to the sauna). There will also be a screening of Vinter Ravn, a short film centered on a female Viking warrior, which will be followed by a Q&A with the film maker and an opportunity to pose with the leather and chain-mail costumes from the set, as well as a book signing with the author Nancy Marie Brown.

September 21 :: Fepo’s Birthday Bash Fundraiser :: Don’t Forget Us PET US Animal Sanctuary, Duxbury

Fepo the rooster is turning 2! Come celebrate! Join Chippi the llama, Bandaid the minihorse, Turnip the goat, and lots of other animal friends at Fepo’s birthday bash! Guests are invited to participate in pony rides, visit the animals, play chicken bingo, and, of course, have birthday cake! Adults are welcome to donate a $5 scratch ticket for a chance to win the whole board of scratch tickets! All funds raised from vendor and raffle sales will go toward helping the animals at the sanctuary.

September 27 :: Ice Cream Boad SUP Social :: Peace Love SUP, Mashpee

Combine two great summer activities — paddle boarding and ice cream! This event meets up at Great River Boat Ramp in Mashpee and paddle boards over to the Kool Beans Ice Cream Boat, where guests choose their ice cream to enjoy on board! All skill levels are welcome, including beginners. Pricing includes all paddle board equipment and one tasty treat per person.

September 28 :: GameOn Day Boston :: King Oak Hill Park, Weymouth

Calling all childhood cancer heroes! Wear your best superhero costume, and come be part of this special day! This free event aims to connect the childhood cancer community, and show the kids how valued and loved they are. Invite your family and friends for music, inflatables, crafts, food, face painting, a teen corner, a raffle, and so much more!

September 29 :: Summer Scoops Pumpkin Painting :: Plainville

Celebrate the end of summer and welcome fall! Paint your own pumpkin during the last weekend that Summer Scoops is open for the season.

September 29 :: Cars & Critters Car Show :: Stone Zoo, Stoneham

Combine your love of cars and your love of animals and what do you get? The Mustangs of Massachusetts (MOM) presentation of Cars and Critters, of course! This car show will feature cars of all makes and models, and you can visit with the animals at the zoo while you are at it! There is a $25 entrance fee if you would like to register a car to participate, which includes admission to the zoo. All funds raised go to support the Stone Zoo.

Little Farmer’s Mornings :: Red Horse Farm, Hanson :: Tuesdays, 10 a.m. (June–October)

Little ones up to 4 years old will learn about farm chores with horses, chickens, and goats! They will also enjoy a farm-related story or craft.

Storytime at Showcase Cinema de Lux :: Patriot Place, Foxborough :: Tuesdays, 11 a.m.

This free weekly storytime takes place every Tuesday at Showcase Cinema de Lux. After a story reading, a special character makes a weekly appearance followed by a short movie.

Public Telescope Nights at New England Sci-Tech :: 16 Tech Circle, Natick :: Tuesdays and Fridays, 8–9 pm

The public is invited to join New England Sci-Tech for an evening of astronomy during the spring, summer, and fall months. Depending on staff availability, inside activities such as planetarium shows and visiting the astronomy classrooms may be available. Visitors are also invited to borrow smaller “starblast” telescopes to use on their own.

Recreation Sundays on Memorial Drive :: Memorial Drive, Cambridge :: Sundays, May–November

Every Sunday, from the last Sunday of April to the second Sunday of November, Memorial Drive is closed to traffic between Western Avenue and Mount Auburn Street — and open to recreation! Ride a bike or scooter, take a jog, or bring your baby on a leisurely stroll down this usually busy road while you enjoy the beautiful views of the Charles River!

Urban Air Sensory Friendly Jump/Play Time :: Bellingham :: Sundays, 9 a.m.

This event is specifically designed for children with autism and special needs to enjoy time at the park and have a lot of fun without loud music and flashing lights! The lights will be white and music/video games turned off for those with sensory challenges during this time.

Baby-Friendly Monday Matinees at the Capitol Theatre :: Arlington :: Mondays, 12–2 p.m.

The Capitol Theatre features a baby-friendly movie every Monday afternoon. Please check the theater’s Monday schedule to see what feature has been selected for parents and their infants.

Kids’ Art Club :: Dorchester :: Tuesdays, 4:30–5:30 p.m.

This club has a new art project at the library every Tuesday. Projects include collage self-portraits and artist’s books. Art Club projects are showcased in rotating displays in the library children’s room.

Nature Time at Blue Hills Trailside Museum :: Milton :: Thursdays, 10:30–11:30 a.m.

Introduce your preschool-aged child to nature with this fun program. Programs may feature a story, nature games, crafts, short walks outside, or meeting one of the museum’s animal residents. Meet, play, and learn with other area families. Each program runs for 45 minutes and meets most Thursdays. Museum admission is included with this program. Children must be accompanied by an adult.

JFN Free Friday Playgroup :: Natick :: Fridays, 9:30–11:30 a.m.

Bring the little ones and come join other parents and caregivers in the Metrowest area for a fun-filled morning of play and socializing. There are plenty of songs, activities, toys, snacks, and laughter, as both the children and their grown-ups build connections and lasting friendships.

Backyard and Beyond: Forest Fridays :: Acton :: Fridays, 10–11 a.m.

A great way for the whole family to enjoy time outdoors, the Forest Friday program is held outside, no matter the weather. Every Friday morning there is a nature-based activity based on the weather and season, either in Discovery Woods or out on the adjacent conservation land. All ages are welcome but activities are designed for 2- to 6-year-olds. Please note that the conservation land trails are not ADA or stroller accessible; please wear appropriate footwear and clothing.

Storytime at the Curious George Store :: Cambridge :: Fridays, 10:30–11 a.m.

Small children and their caregivers are welcome at these weekly storytimes, running throughout the year.

SaturPLAY :: Rose Kennedy Greenway – Chinatown :: Boston :: Select Saturdays, 1–3 p.m.

The Asian Community Development Corporation’s youth program, A-VOYCE, hosts a placemaking event monthly to activate and bring children to The Greenway’s Mary Soo Hoo Park. Each month features a different theme with games, activities, crafts, and more. Youth volunteers are on hand to engage children. SaturPlay is subject to weather conditions.

ImprovBoston Family Show :: Cambridge :: Saturdays, 4–5 p.m.

Improv Boston’s improv and music extravaganza is completely made up on the spot every week based on your suggestion. No two shows are alike! Best of all, children who want to participate have opportunities to be on stage and take part in the fun! The show is ideal for family outings, birthday parties, and school field trips. It’s fun for the whole family and best for children ages 4-12.

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Good Riddance to Summer!

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It’s almost that time of year again. School is about to start. Not long after, the weather will cool. Leaves will change. And I’ll rejoice!

I may be in the minority here, but I say, “Good riddance!” to summer.

I’ll be glad when it’s over. Here’s why:

A little less sweat

Summer is hot! And sweaty! I have an infant whose preferred mode of transportation is in the baby carrier, pressed up against my chest. After carrying her around outside for even a minute, we’re both soaking wet. So bring on the long sleeves and long pants — I’m ready!

An end to the sunscreen wars

I despise putting sunscreen on my kids. It involves chasing them all over the house with hands painted white, trying to get that goop somewhere on their exposed skin. Often it winds up on their clothes or hair, or smeared all over me. It’s truly a battle worthy of Game of Thrones, and it happens every. single. day. My kiddos don’t seem to understand that sunscreen is the thing that stands between them and summer camp, or the playground, or the pool. Between them and fun! You’d think they’d be more willing to have it applied, but no.

Regular schedules

As a mother of three little ones who also works outside the home, I keep a lot of schedules in my brain. In summer, it feels like everyone is doing something new every week, and it’s a challenge to keep track of it all. I have definitely had moments of panic when I forget where my oldest is and think that I’ve forgotten to pick her up on time. I’ll be grateful to get back into the school routine and have it stay the same for the next nine months!

Normal bedtimes

It’s hard enough to make our 8 p.m. bedtime in the winter, but in summer it’s practically impossible. The neighbor kids are still outside and the sun is still shining — it must be time to play! Blackout shades can only go so far. When darkness falls a little earlier, it’ll be totally OK with me!

So sayonara, summer! I’m off to go pull my slippers and favorite sweaters out of the back of my closet. I can’t wait to wear them!


Family Hikes and Nature Walks Around Boston

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Before becoming a parent, I thought I understood cabin fever. And, sure, after a few days inside I might get antsy, but I still relished slow days curled up with coffee and binge watching Netflix. As a parent, cabin fever sets in after a few hours inside. My 3-year-old thinks you dance by literally bouncing off the walls and so, except in the bleakest, coldest, rainiest weather, we go outside. Thankfully, living in Boston means we are surrounded by places where we can run around and explore. Here are a few favorite family hikes from our Boston Moms Blog contributors.

If you have a stroller…

Mount Auburn Cemetery (Cambridge)

Mount Auburn is best known for its stunning fall foliage, but it’s a great place to visit any time of year for its paved paths, restrooms, and interesting monuments to explore. They even provide a guide to visiting with children so that you won’t miss any highlights.

Breakheart Reservation (Saugus)

Two lakes (one for swimming!), two paved trails for strollering, and great views of Boston and New Hampshire make Breakheart a wonderful stop for families. There is a also a playground if you still have energy left over after your hike.

Arnold Arboretum (Boston)

The Arboretum draws huge crowds for its Mother’s Day Lilac Festival, but there is much to explore here year round. Lots of paved paths, free Discovery Packs to check out for kids, and really cool exhibits like the Bonsai trees make this a great family stop. 

Minuteman Bike Path (Cambridge, Arlington, Lexington, Bedford)

I’m a bit biased because I live a few blocks off the path and use it for daily transportation, but the Minuteman Path is great for getting out with kids on bikes, scooters, or strollers. The path crosses through Bedford, Lexington, Arlington, and Cambridge and connects to other paths to get you all the way to Somerville. 

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Turtle Pond at Habitat in Belmont

If you’re comfortable with unpaved trails…

Cranberry Bog at Patriot Place (Foxborough)

This is a great, short trail for toddlers. A half-mile wood-mulch walk will take you around an active cranberry bog and through the woods, where you can see various plants and animals. Try to spot a turtle!

Hale Reservation (Westwood)

In the off-season, your dog can join you off-leash for these hikes. While a bit longer (2–4 miles each), you have your choice of gentle slopes or more challenging terrain through wilderness or around one of the two ponds.

Blue Hills Reservation (Milton)

The Blue Hills Reservation offers a large variety of trails (including some great ones for cross-country skiing). In the summer, the hike to Houghton’s Pond is lovely and easy enough for small children (come prepared to buy a slush after your dip!). Or try something longer and steeper, like the Great Blue Hill trail for a view of Mount Monadnock.

Habitat Education Center and Wildlife Sanctuary

All the Mass Audubon reservations are very family friendly, and Habitat is a great alternative to the often-crowded Drumlin Farm. The trails are gently sloped and cover a variety of terrain — forest, meadow, and ponds. Don’t miss the beautiful gardens around the Georgian mansion, and take time to say hi to the goats.

I Held My Son Back In Preschool — Here’s Why

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Like many first-time moms, I was excited yet nervous for my child to attend preschool. Up until that point he had been at home, so it was both liberating to think about receiving some free time and nerve-racking to lose some control. These emotions, combined with the fact that I am a former teacher, brought me into orientation day ready to scope out the classroom and hopefully gain some confidence in my choice. I wanted only the best for Jeff.

My son was newly 3 and noted as having a possible speech delay, so I worried when I noticed the birthday poster hanging on the wall that confirmed a quarter of the class would be 4 by November. I pushed through my worries, figuring I was being a bit extreme. And besides, it could be good for him to learn from the older children. We moved forward, and I hoped for the best. 

He seemed to be adjusting well. I continually received positive reviews at pickup: He was listening, waiting in line, and learning to take turns. I felt a sense of pride when I would drop him off in the mornings and see his independence blossoming. He was excited at the table activities, and he had no trouble saying goodbye to me.  

One cold January day as I arrived at pickup, his teacher exclaimed, “We heard Jeffrey speak today!”

I was stunned and a bit alarmed.

They went on to say that it was one of the first times he had volunteered information. I knew he was not the most verbose child; we were already looking into speech therapy options for him. But to not speak at all at school? I was really worried. He spoke at home and around family, so to not speak at school confused me. All the rule-following and good behavior be darned — what was the point of preschool if he was basically a fly on the wall? 

Since it was time to register the children for the following school year, I became even more confused and emotional about what would be best for him. How could I send him back to preschool without truly knowing what he understood, where he fell in the classroom lineup, or where he would be with his speech therapy. It just didn’t feel right. While brainstorming ideas, a thought came to me: What if he repeated the 3-year-old class? 

It may sound odd to hold a toddler back in preschool. But for my son, it was a pivotal choice.

After meeting with the school director, who was in agreement, we finalized the decision, and I’ve felt a huge sense of relief. I’m looking forward to watching him continue to learn and grow — and hopefully thrive — at school. It has taken some people aback to learn that he is repeating a year of preschool. “What will you do next year?!” they question. “Will he be going to kindergarten on time?”

In short, I don’t know. I’m not sure what we will do. And I fully understand that whatever we end up choosing may directly impact his educational future. But what I do know is that I’m taking it seriously and weighing the standard placement and timeline in conjunction with his development. For me, it isn’t so much about where he falls in an age group, but more about how he has developed, and whether he’s ready to move forward. This move, which at one point seemed so overwhelming, has, in turn, empowered me as a mother. I feel strong and confident in my ability to gauge my son’s development and make decisions that are best for him. Even if they aren’t necessarily easier for me or typical in our society. 


Finding the Right Childcare Provider With Our Partners at KinderCare!

Our partners at KinderCare know that trusting new caregivers with your child is stressful, no matter how old your child is. Choosing a caregiver or childcare center can be overwhelming and difficult because there are so many options to choose from!

How do you choose the right childcare option for your family? KinderCare has some tips!

Find a place where your child will be safe and loved.

Caring for children is a huge responsibility. Find a caregiver who pays attention to every detail — big and small — and who makes themselves available to answer your questions whenever you have them.

Find out their safety procedures! Are they CPR and First Aid certified? How do they approach naptime and disciplinary issues? Are their answers and techniques similar to yours?

Will your child be seen and welcomed for who they are?

Every child is unique and develops at their own pace and in their own way. It is important to find a center or caregiver who celebrates your child’s individuality! Teachers and caregivers should get to know each child in the class, as well as their families. There should be opportunities for each child to see reflections of themselves and their beliefs, customs, and cultures in their classroom community.

What if your child needs extra support in certain developmental or educational areas? Will the center or caregiver be able to work with you to find the support your child needs? KinderCare uses a popular developmental screening tool to see if children are meeting developmental benchmarks for their age — and the test results show that KinderCare students are more prepared than their peers are for grade school.

How will the center or provider encourage your child’s natural sense of curiosity?

What does the classroom look like? Make sure the classrooms are set up with children in mind — with things at a child’s eye level. Keep an eye out for open-ended learning spaces where children can explore and decide how (and what) they want to do, learn, and create. Is it a print-rich environment? Even if children can’t yet read, a classroom with books and words everywhere (even labels on chairs and tables) will help children develop literacy skills early on! It is never too early to start learning!

Socializing is the key to building important relationships.

Look for a place where teachers are trained to listen to a child’s needs (at different ages and stages) and respond with appropriate suggestions and questions that guide children toward choices that will leave them feeling confident. Are teachers focused on what the children are doing? Are they engaging with children by asking questions and talking respectfully to them? How do they handle tears or children working to share a toy?

For 50 years, KinderCare teachers have been creating safe, encouraging environments where kids can learn, grow, and build confidence for life. At KinderCare, hardworking families are family — regardless of needs, backgrounds, and experiences.

Learn more about what to look for in a childcare provider at KinderCare.com.

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Whoops, Poops, and the TSA :: Getting Past the Stinky Start to Our Vacation

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As we edge closer to the TSA checkpoint in Logan Airport, my stomach fills with butterflies and my chest tightens. Traveling with Type 1 diabetes is an adventure — I am always pulled aside, patted down, and swiped with a magic wand in order to ensure my insulin pump is what I say it is. Traveling with T1D, a toddler, and a baby — on an international vacation — is an even greater challenge. 

When we reach the conveyor belt and begin loading our carry-on bags, the agent tells us to take our baby out of the carrier in order to walk through with her. At that moment, I forget everything about my diabetes as I realize my 7-month-old has successfully leaked through her diaper and her jeans, and all over her bucket seat. I am filled with a new anxiety coupled with embarrassment — for her, for me, for all of us. The TSA agents have obviously seen it all, and they usher us through.

After the ordeal of getting through security, I am full of dread. I quickly realize that the extra outfits I had put aside for the carry-on bags are still sitting in the living room. I have no change of clothes for my baby, and we’re only minutes into our vacation. 

Mother. Of. The. Year.

Flustered, frustrated, and apologetic, I take her to the ladies’ room to clean her up while my toddler, my husband, my mother, my father, and four of my in-laws wait for us just inside the security checkpoint. Elbow-deep in baby poop, I feel the tears well in my eyes. How could I do this?

How could I not pack an extra outfit for my little queen of poop?

I clean her as best I can, using almost an entire package of wipes and airport-quality paper towels. With only a clean diaper and a T-shirt on, I bring her out to my family. Admitting that I forgot to pack a change of clothes in our carry-on luggage, I scurry back into the bathroom. In the bathroom sink, with lukewarm water and pink hand soap, I attempt to wash her stinky clothes, wring them dry, and then run her socks and pants through the hand dryer. They dry clothing about as well as they dry hands (not at all).

After scanning every available airport shop, I learn that not a single one in Terminal E has baby pants. The best I can find is a short-sleeved onesie, which would be completely useless for our little one. I purchase an overpriced airport blanket and wrap my daughter in a swaddle that she quickly escapes.

At this point, I am angry and irritable.

I convince myself that this is a bad omen for the vacation. I have psyched myself out and put myself in a funk. And honestly, it was totally my fault. Why didn’t I pack multiple outfits for this girl? We have yet to find a diaper that can contain her. This was not the first time she over-filled her diaper, and it certainly wouldn’t be the last. 

Wandering through the terminal, we find quick and unpalatable dinner options. Once settled in our seats at the gate, I retreat to Starbucks for my much-needed chai latte and try to gain some perspective.

I’m human. I packed two weeks of supplies and clothing for a toddler, a baby, and myself, and I all I forgot was an extra set of clothing.

I could continue to beat myself up, or I could put the bat down, pick the chai up, and enjoy myself and my family.

This is how my two-week vacation to the Azores began. Fortunately, I chose the latter option. And the remaining days went more smoothly than the first few hours.

Addie in her airplane outfit, enjoying a Portuguese cookie, post flight.

We Dread It Too — Back to School for the Teacher Mom

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School supplies, back-to-school clothes, dollar bins overflowing with colorful folders, erasers, and pens. But I feel like summer just started!

My kids are still enjoying popsicle dinners, running through the hose, too many cartoons, bathing suits all day, flip flops, and a much later bedtime. And me? I’ve just started not waking up at the exact time my alarm went off during the school year, not regretting the second (or third) margarita in the morning, enjoying my cup of coffee, and forgetting about my to-do list from the school year that still has some things undone.

But when I walk into Target I am ambushed. I am hit smack in the face with the reminder that it doesn’t last forever. The back-to-school posters, classroom decor, colorful pens, pencils, and folders. I do love colorful supplies, but not in the middle of summer. These organization tools and writing utensils that usually excite me are now just a reminder that summer does end. And I don’t want summer to end, just as much as my kids don’t. 

I dread going back to school. 

I dread the alarm clock that I try not to snooze five times.

I dread packing lunches

I dread picking out suitable outfits for myself and the boys.

I dread the pickups/drop-offs. 

I dread the late nights planning and re-planning. 

I dread the not-so-easy parent phone calls.

I dread the eat-your-lunch-as-fast-as-you-can lunchtime in the teachers’ room.

I dread the Sunday scaries. 

But… you know what I do not dread about going back to school?

The excitement in my students’ eyes.

Seeing how tall they’ve grown.

Decorating bulletin boards.

Dancing around my classroom to the latest Latin pop song.

Creating engaging lessons.

Finding that perfect professional development session.

Watching my students smile when they get it.

Listening to chatter in my classroom in Spanish. 

Helping students connect a new culture to their own.

Witnessing friendships flourish.

Being someone my students can count on. 

I look forward to school vacations — especially summer — as much as my students do. Before taking the plunge into education, I never realized how much teachers looked forward to summer. But now I totally get it. We can love what we do and love our students, but we can also love taking a break.

So, please, until at least the end of August, keep those brightly colored notebooks and sharpies out of my sight!


Best Lounges in Boston to Rekindle Romance

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For a date night, dinner out at a restaurant is nice. Bars are good, too. But for sheer atmosphere and potential to rekindle the passion in a relationship that feels completely run ragged by children, the lounge reigns supreme.

Why? Because if you go out to dinner, you’re sitting across a table from your partner. Sure, you can hold hands, but the table gets in the way of snuggling right up against your date. Also, the main attraction is the food, or it’s at least a significant distraction. On top of all that, the wait staff is usually interested in turning the table, so the date is over when you finish eating. A lounge, on the other hand, is all about intimacy, conversation, and lingering.

So, without further ado, here are the five best lounges in Boston for parents looking to reconnect.

Lolita

Lolita gets high marks for sexiness. It has very dim lights and plenty of sofas to snuggle up on. It also boasts an admirable tequila menu and lots of shareable plate options. The only downside is that the music can be a little on the loud side for conversation, but it’s manageable.

The Lenox

The Lenox bar is a great spot to relax with a drink and good company. The hotel is beautiful to walk through. The glossy black walls and comfy corner sofa area are calming and elegant. Drawback: They often have TVs playing sports or news of some kind, which is a little distracting. But overall, this is the kind of place where you order a whiskey, lean back, and exhale.

The Hawthorne

The Hawthorne is another great hotel bar/lounge. It has a few small seating areas, and a nice, shareable menu of appetizers. The music sets just the right tone for conversation while keeping the mood lively. Decor is comfortable and stylish, and service is good.

Empire

Empire is a fabulous date spot. They do a great job making every corner of the large place feel semi-private, and there’s ample sofa space so you’re not rubbing elbows with strangers (unless that’s your thing). The music sets an intimate but fun vibe, and the lighting is romantic. The sushi is delicious and reasonably priced, and the service is always outstanding.

Yvonne

I love this place so much, I’m hesitant to put it on the list because I want to keep it all to myself! This is my idea of the perfect date night locale. The entrance fronts as a hair salon, but then you’re led downstairs into an expansive speakeasy lounge and restaurant. Every part of this place is a treat for the eyes. It’s perfectly lit and decorated in an eclectic, irreverent way, with meticulous attention to detail. Sitting at the bar is fun, but the sofa seating is the best — perfect for chatting, sipping, and people watching.

What’s your favorite lounge spot in Boston? Tell us in the comments!

 

Making the Most of the Last Weeks of Summer

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Technically, friends, summer doesn’t end until September 21.

Our kids going back to school does not mean summer is over! There are so many ways to hold on to the joys of summer even after the academic year begins. Our family loves eeking every last moment of the summer. And having a few more adventures and experiences to look forward to seems to help the transition for our little one back into the rhythms of school. Many kids can experience the September slump and become more anxious or struggle with behavior as they come to terms with the idea that summer is really over. And, to be honest, as a family of teachers, we sometimes feel the same way! So, here are a few of our family’s favorite ideas for making the most of these last few weeks of sun!

Take a trip to the Boston Harbor Islands

The ferries from Boston Long Wharf to the Harbor Islands run until mid-October, and they are a great place to spend the day, as a kid or as an adult. You can hike and explore nature, take a summer swim, climb the playgrounds and forts, enjoy a self-guided tour, or do many other activities designed especially for kids. Our son’s favorite island is Spectacle — the beach full of sea glass and pottery fragments makes for hours of exploring. (Just note that you aren’t allowed to take it with you! We like to make a mosaic in the sand or bury a few favorite pieces for new friends to find.)

Not a fan of boats? You can do a lot of these same activities at Castle Island, which is accessible by car, and enjoy some of my favorite fried clams in Boston at Sullivan’s. (Though my favorite fried clams in the state are at the Causeway Diner in Gloucester!) 

Explore a new museum

It never ceases to amaze me how many great museums there are in the state, and yet it sometimes feels like we can get stuck in a museum rut. There are many museums that, if you’re willing to travel a little further outside of the city, offer outdoor experiences worth exploring before the weather turns. The Worcester Ecotarium and the Discovery Museum in Acton are two of our favorites.

Go “golfing”

Our son fell in love with golf this summer. (Wacking a ball with a stick as hard as you can? He’s IN.) We’ve yet to take him for a full, or even half, round of real golf, but we’re excited that this new summer activity can last well into the fall. He’s a big fan of driving ranges, and many in the area are open year-round, with heated bays giving you the ability to practice your swing. Many also offer inexpensive, quick lessons. If miniature golf is more your style, many courses are open year-round, weather permitting. McGolf in Dedham offers the ability to enjoy both a driving range and a mini-golf course.

Keep buying rosé

Okay, clearly this one isn’t full-family friendly. But I find the idea that rosé is just for the summer deeply distressing. Hold on to summer for as long as you can — a glass of rosé is the perfect way to bring a little summer warmth and joy into the fall. Because the internet is a magical place, you can find multiple articles online that say the best rosé is at Trader Joe’s. This type of useful data is what the internet was made for. Thank you, Al Gore.

What are some of your ideas to keep the summer magic alive? Feel free to share them here!


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5 Concerts to Take Your Kids to (That Aren’t Kids Bands!)

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Live music is a fantastic experience, no matter your age! Who doesn't remember the excitement of seeing a band perform live on stage for the first time? Taking your kids to a live concert can be a bit tricky, though. There is only so much Kidz Bop a parent can take. But is a "real" concert going to be family friendly? Here are a few bands that put on a great show that will be loved by both the parents and the kids alike!