Kristen Douthit

34 POSTS 0 COMMENTS
Kristen is Southern by birth but has called Boston home for more than a decade. Unlike most Boston natives, she still really loves the snow and cold. She and her husband have two energetic and kind sons (2013, 2014) and a sassy, smart baby girl (2016) who doesn't have a volume knob and is the bruiser of the bunch. Now home full time with the kids, Kristen jokes that she has a master's degree in laundry and a PhD in preschool conflict resolution — which she uses far more than her actual physics and politics degrees. In her "spare" time, she runs her own business (Murph&Moose), which helps her retain some semblance of her own identity in the midst of motherhood. Her passion is seeing moms feel comfortable in their own skin and less alone in the chaos that is motherhood. Loves: writing, science, languages, coffee by the vat, distance running, a good Malbec, time with her girlfriends, and the rare moments of silence when all three children are (finally) in bed Dislikes: daylight saving time, non-washable markers, and noisy neighbors who disrupt her rare moments of silence

Teaching Children About Consent

Content warning: preventing childhood sexual abuse "It's my body, so I get to choose who touches it and when, and if I'm not OK with it, I say NO! But I wanted her to, so...

I Am Terrified of Caring for My Aging Parents

I am terrified of caring for my aging parents.  It feels like being back in the newborn era and being handed a helpless, screaming baby who is now mine to care for. Except now, it's...

What if There Was an HR Department for Motherhood?

I recently started a new job, and as I've been going through all the human resources codes of conduct and procedures, it got me thinking — what would HR have to say about motherhood?  Hi,...

I’ll Tell You What I Want (What I Really, Really Want)

A very loose parody of "Wannabe" by Spice Girls: I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want... If you want to be my partner, it's super sexy if you know our kids' schedules. Details...

My Word for 2022 :: Savor

In each of my three children's most recent parent-teacher conferences, there was one common theme. All three kids were doing very well in school, producing good work. But each teacher — of my three...
girl in a plaid jacket and jeans looks down from her perch near the top of a tall tree

Raising Risk Takers in a Risk-Averse Culture

I worry, these days, that we are creating risk-averse kids. We live in extraordinary times. Times in which minimizing risk is not only encouraged, but expected — and many of us think that if we...

The Grossest Moments of Motherhood

Parenthood, like many other things, is not for the easily intimidated. Nor is it for the weak of stomach. Sure, children are adorable and snuggly — but sometimes they can be downright disgusting. It's...

Our Wedding Vows 10-Year Expansion Pack

"I, Kristen, take thee, , to be my lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to...
can you hear me - Boston Moms

Can You Hear Me?!

"CAN YOU HEAR ME!? IS ANYONE LISTENING?" My 4-year-old daughter has no volume control. She yells, squeals, and shouts at top volume, even if she is only a few feet away. She's the youngest —...
i miss who i was - Boston Moms

I Miss Who I Was But I Wouldn’t Change Who I Am

Sometimes, I miss who I was. I'm a 36-year-old mother of three. My life these days consists of shuttling my kids between sports and school and making sure everyone is clean, dressed, and fed.   I do...
cancer - Boston Moms

Talking About Hard and Scary Things With Your Kids

A few weeks ago, I took our 8-year-old to the doctor for his annual physical. While we were there, his doctor remarked how happy and well-adjusted he was, given all that was going on...
busy - Boston Moms

“You’re So Busy!”

About a decade after I graduated from college, I sat down with an old mentor of mine for coffee. In reminiscing about the "good old days," and how much I'd changed since then, he...